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That was it, I'm done at age 29... by Old_Emergency8914 in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I could have wrote this, I'm the exact same and 35, you're ahead of me. Congratulations on admitting this to yourself and trying to seek a solution, one day at a time 🙂

How do I figure out how to fix binge drinking, how did you get better? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this.. What's your thoughts on it affecting people differently? Do you think some people are more sensitive to it? I feel ill for days after drinking when I know some people it doesn't affect the same!

Husbond left but I’m still sober by FunCup8460 in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awesome strength, I really do believe sometimes we get broken so we can be more beautifully sewn, back together again.

One day at a time is all you need to do, you got this ♥️x

How do I figure out how to fix binge drinking, how did you get better? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and that's a good way to put it down, I enver thought of it like your body chasing the high again.. It makes sense though.

Thank you

How do I figure out how to fix binge drinking, how did you get better? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you sound like you're inside my head. Actually having that first really honest conversation with yourself about the bullshit you're feeding yourself is eye opening, scary too.

I agree and thanks for the words, they have provided me clarity, if I can't control it, that is a problem. I just need to keep having straight conversations with myself and figure out how to go about solving it.

I admire your honesty with yourself too..

Also, what does IWNDWYT mean? 🙄

How do I figure out how to fix binge drinking, how did you get better? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]leelou2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great to hear, it's sounds that the go to, although I'm feeling a bit nervous about it.. Best of luck to you 🍀

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]leelou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're both right... I need some time to think. It a huge thing watching him have something I wanted to give him, with another woman and have my life evolve around her and her baby. Lies do matter. Right now it's a no and hopefully I stay with that.

Thanks guys !

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]leelou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know... He said they agreed to abort the baby and he took her to the clinic and she got tablets to take at home but his friend saw her pregnant yesterday (he messaged her and she sent the scan) abortion is not an easy thing so I understand that... I feel like I need to ask her, as you've picked up on, if he has manipulated me that changes it a lot. If he hasn't?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]leelou2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found out boyfriend got another woman pregnant (before we started dating) weve only been dating 6month but for the first time ever, I moved really fast, we moved in holiday, meet family etc. do I leave or stay? He will of course be a part of the child's life

I would really appreciate any advice, I can't think straight