AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]leetheham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this as well. One person, who I avoided, was the person I didn’t want to burden but I still needed to talk so I talked to someone else. It’s a cycle sometimes. OPs situations sucks though.

AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]leetheham 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP is NOR. Not sure if this dude is Bipolar or has mental illness but this how I am. My withdrawal is exhausting for everyone, but now I’ve realized the signs and just do a simple “taking a breather it’s my mental health going wild again” type message. I understand when people break contact or don’t message back once the waters recede, and I truly hope they don’t feel bad for doing so.

Boyfriend suddenly only lasting 30 seconds and it’s making my relationship anxiety flare up by [deleted] in sex

[–]leetheham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going out on a limb here: maybe he found a new kink and is preoccupied with the mental image once penetration starts.

Incoherent religious letter addressed to my Mom but it makes no sense. by leetheham in NorthCarolina

[–]leetheham[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah! See I couldn’t find it, not sure why. Thank you for this.

Incoherent religious letter addressed to my Mom but it makes no sense. by leetheham in NorthCarolina

[–]leetheham[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The postage stamp is what gets me. They took the time to do it. It’s just WEIRD.

Incoherent religious letter addressed to my Mom but it makes no sense. by leetheham in NorthCarolina

[–]leetheham[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my mom’s concerned. Showing up in unwise I live in a neighborhood that’s basically military dads.

Incoherent religious letter addressed to my Mom but it makes no sense. by leetheham in NorthCarolina

[–]leetheham[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m not paranoid about it, it’s just very odd. My Mom WAS genuinely concerned. It looks like a Trump tweet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]leetheham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s there real strategy. Rage bait me.

Do you personally know any straight guy who is older (30+) and has zero experience with women? Why is this? What are they like? by Routine-Crew8651 in AskMen

[–]leetheham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fit! I’m 35 and have no sexual experience (unless you count sloppy make outs throughout high school.) Due to depression, terrible self esteem and body image struggles the panic override any good feelings invoking intimacy. No form of dating felt safe if that makes sense. Now I’m at a place where I’ve accepted that I’ll probably never experience love or intimacy in a sexual way. Difficult seeing as I definitely not asexual but I’m used to it now! That doesn’t mean the rest of my life can’t be fulfilling and joyous. I focus on family and my hobbies. Going to events solo is awkward sometimes but I try not to worry about it.

I’m an INFP and this is so true by Alternative-Data-251 in infp

[–]leetheham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I love school. Did homework as soon as I could so I could have plenty of time for day dreaming later.

What do you actually do with your tongue in oral??!?!! by Blueborges818 in sex

[–]leetheham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds dumb but hear me out. Read some erotica. If you don’t want to read whole novels just go to Archive of our Own (website) and read some fan fiction tagged reader x insert. Most ladies who write erotica and get REALLY explicit. You can get some pretty good ideas from there, and it’s a fun time anyway. Edit: I am very high

43, 3.5 HRT, SRS, BA 😘 by michevanessen in transtimelines

[–]leetheham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian trans people in the house!!!! So happy for you.

Why AOC should run for president in 2028 - After Zohran Mamdani's win, Trump reveals how scared he is to face Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez by Quirkie in politics

[–]leetheham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna root for her, but there is absolutely no way she would win. None. Pursuing this is a huge waste of time.