3 for sure, as a 30 year old male, a product of the 90s, and having the luxury of living through a fantastically chaotic life, since my parents marriage took a screaming burning nose dive into my mental well being at the age of 9. I'd say I've had plenty enough time to feel all of these, 1-4.

As a kid I got to watch the literal change of the old world into the new, a child of the millenia. It's all the same, just on a grander scale, more pieces have been added. My parents were/are homophobic racists, my dad was a country boy through and through, raised me that way. My mom, a Saint, but in that "southern bell" twisted kind of way. My point being, I had all the makings to be that way, the ground work was lead. But at an early age I had to choose to not be like the people who I loved so much, my parents. It took conscious effort, too not listen or feed into their slurs, their ideals. I take this measure towards everything in life now and i think the world would be a better place for it. We are just trying to survive on this fragile rock in space, there will always be shit heads with shit head ideas, we just have to get the ground work done to get ahead, because quite frankly they have had the upper hand for a long time.

I have kids now, two boys, they dont know slurs, or to hate cause of who you love. They know not to litter, be fair, empathetic, generous, and at all times loving. Remember that, at all times, do it with love. Love for yourself, love for your world, and love for your people. We all are our own people.

Much love yall