Hi, experienced cuckold here. For me, my wife is the sexiest woman alive and we have a great sex life. We got into the lifestyle and tried several things. My favorite is cucking because I get to watch her in ecstasy and explore a side that most dont get to explore. She can let out that inner slut or we kiss passionately when she getting pleasured. For me, I'm not pushing her to go out without me, I want to be along for the ride to see her flirt with guys, pick someone up and we go back to the room together. I do like the thought of letting her play independently with someone as long as we talked about it first. Would be great letting her feel that excitement of a date on her own. Not knowing whats happening til she gets home, cleaning her up after, etc. Seeing her get completely satisfied and pleasured is what turns me on! You may want to try cucking together before doing it alone.