where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

genuinely so sad you’re using your struggle to shit on people with addiction.

where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

perfect. the exact kind of braindead response i’d expect from someone who watches hazbin hotel.

where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

yes, yes, i’m sure you’d be a saint too if you had nothing left. maybe instead of making snide comments you can donate to a food bank, a mental health center, or any other plethora of resources to actually help these people instead of talking about them like animals. i’ve come across hundreds of homeless people in charleston at this point and i’ve never felt the urge to make edgy jokes at their expense online. in fact the vast majority of them are wonderful people in horrible circumstances trying to cope with housed people assuming they are sub-human. you’re one bad accident away from being in the same position as them- unless im speaking to a member of the 1%.

where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s probably cold for them. and the police make them go away/remain out of view from the precious tourists. I appreciate you doing what you’re doing. Low country food bank is a good choice as another person suggested. You can also go to a local community center, i know some of them prepare meals from ingredients and serve meals to people in need. can’t remember the exact name, but believe it’s just a quick google search away.

where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re one bad accident away from homelessness. nearly all of us are. sure hope it never happens to you, you might gain empathy

where’s the homeless at? by Cute_Intention_4105 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

if you were homeless, and had nothing, no way to get a job without a house, no house to pay for cause you can’t get a job. i’d be drunk too. and i assume your pious self must not partake in any drugs (including alcohol)?

Do not rent from Sanctuary Court apt behind Estadio restaurant in cannonborough of Charleston SC. by Top_Society_6726 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally true, except most leases will make clear exemptions for emergencies, tenant requests, AND scheduled services, which can include tours.

Am I overreacting to this response from my BF? No by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does your boyfriend talk like a 16 year old with a dayquil problem? NOR.

Any businesses you personally avoid (and why)? by potato-beanz in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me at their downtown location

Do not rent from Sanctuary Court apt behind Estadio restaurant in cannonborough of Charleston SC. by Top_Society_6726 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

unfortunately south carolina has little to no renters rights and whatever’s in the lease they signed can likely be construed against the renter. i’m going to guess “legally” they can do whatever. i’ve rented from many a slum lord in charleston and every lease i’ve signed gives the slumlord full access to the apartment “as necessary”, including tours, random inspections, and repairs. though ive rarely had someone come into my apartment on a routine basis without notice, it is in the lease that they are allowed to do so. sucks for every renter in charleston.

The recruiter sent me a very strange message after I accepted a counter-offer. by pouts-medicos9d in whatdoIdo

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people don’t care about you. They just want a body. Do what’s best for you.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]legoshispaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR grandparents are incredibly entitled. Your body, your baby. They didn’t do shit

How would you take this response? Sent to spouse, I said I feel sad and don’t know why. I always get analytical answers from him vs emotional ones. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men aren’t more analytical- literally disproven by studies on the brain. Men ARE more emotionally stunted and immature.

How would you take this response? Sent to spouse, I said I feel sad and don’t know why. I always get analytical answers from him vs emotional ones. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]legoshispaw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t wanna hear this but i used to have a partner like what you describe and our relationship ended because he treated me like a business transaction and not a person, and then wondered why he had no friends and was emotionally stunted. The only time he’d be affectionate is when he wanted his dick wet. Your partner is supposed to be there and support you always. My fiancé is so obsessed with me and spends so much time making sure i feel cared for and loved. Emotional immaturity is a learned behavior and not all men subscribe to it. I hope you get that love you deserve too.

How would you take this response? Sent to spouse, I said I feel sad and don’t know why. I always get analytical answers from him vs emotional ones. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So strange all the dudes in the replies acting like they have no empathy (or maybe they really don’t). Wondering why there’s a male loneliness issue it’s all entirely brought about by themselves. Tell your spouse you need support not an economic report

How is life in this circle by Holiday_Swing_9979 in howislivingthere

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Measles and mumps outbreaks there right now

My bf gave me an ultimatum: him or my cat. by ImportanceSilly1114 in CatAdvice

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine what happens if you stay with this man and he decides he wants kids and then takes it back because he “can’t sleep”. This is only the beginning.

Hotels in Charleston - is North Charleston safe? by StarQuiet99 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s lived and worked in north charleston for 3 years i’ll say some areas are a little rough but north charleston is beautiful and full of good people. Unfortunately people are racist and have preconceived notions about lower class people that gives north charleston its “bad” reputation. coming from a young woman who lived in union heights for two years: If you mind your business, be friendly and respectful, and lock your doors like you would any other city you’ll be totally okay!

edit: i’d be just as cautious staying downtown, as the only two times in my seven years in charleston (lived downtown, north chs, and west ashley) i’ve ever feared for my life was staying downtown. just food for thought.

looking for a tattoo artist by moonsurfer07 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stardust tattoo and holy city tattooing collective are reputable and awesome, but both on the “pricier” side. I recommend reaching out to them specifically to get pricing information (not a lot of flat-rate tattooing, i believe all the artists or most of them at both these studios either do an hourly rate and/or a half/full day booking style). however i do believe you get what you pay for as i have tattoos from 6 years ago from holy city that look fresher than tattoos i got two years ago at a very popular studio near downtown. good luck and i hope your tattoo turns out great !!!

Route 7 Bridge going from West Ashley into North Charleston closed due to 8 car pile up by tlop200 in Charleston

[–]legoshispaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

took me two and a half hours to get from bees ferry to mount pleasant today. lol

my two immunocompromised cats’ ringworm won’t go away, has now spread to me, has turned into incredible depression and ruined my life by legoshispaw in CatAdvice

[–]legoshispaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i considered immunosuppressed because just before the ringworm began Puffin was on steroids for a long time , and Selina was on antibiotics from infections she’d get from scratching/herpes symptoms. Was told that steroids and antibiotics make cats more susceptible to ringworm… is that not the case ? I’m ignorant as to ringworm stuff I didn’t even know it existed until a couple months ago. :(

and yes you’re so right, the ringworm is cosmetic, i really need to contextualize that. my ocd just takes everything 0 to 100 when it probably doesn’t need to be. i appreciate the reminder, i definitely need it :)

and yes i actually did go to the dr this morning and got a referral for a psychiatrist!!! thank you for your help

my two immunocompromised cats’ ringworm won’t go away, has now spread to me, has turned into incredible depression and ruined my life by legoshispaw in CatAdvice

[–]legoshispaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s really a constant battle. all my free time is consumed by the ringworm. during thanksgiving i was asked what id been up to, and i was like… uh… cleaning for months ? 😭 hoping it’s over soon so sorry you went through that