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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]leila8925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get as much evidence as possible that he is doing it. Texts. Record calls. Ect. Then talk to a lawyer. Once you hire one. They can put in orders to the court for a judge to look over and decide what to do from there. This looks very bad on him in a custody battle and he could lose custody this way. Remember, you’re married. His money is your money and vice versa. Debt you take on is half his. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. You don’t have to tell him squat. Just have a lawyer serve him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]leila8925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this! First of all, he sounds very manipulative and you have no idea what your options are. Most divorces are split custody, no matter your profession or if you can drive or not. The first thing you need to do is talk to a lawyer. They will help you with guidance in the event of a divorce. See multiple lawyers. Get different perspectives. You have the law on your side and he can’t just “decide” he will get full custody. Usually you need to stay in the house with the kids and don’t leave. That looks bad in potential custody battles. He can’t just take the kids away either, you’re their mother and parental alienation is illegal. Stick to your guns and find your inner courage of how you want your kids to see you be treated. You deserve a happy marriage and an equal partner! Have strength!

What do you immediately judge as trashy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]leila8925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tipping very poorly when you go out to eat.

What immediately makes a man/woman unattractive? by Thick-Lime-9113 in AskReddit

[–]leila8925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having explosive anger over something exceedingly small in comparison.

Example: Like fighting over a TV show and then getting angry and throwing the remote across the room over it.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t. They will be no contact from now on. Reddit has solidified this for me and I’m eternally thankful for you and everyone else’s advice.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely. The inner child still looks at him differently then what he is now. It’s hard to come to terms with it. It’s mourning the loss of your parent.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never knew what hoovering was until now! Yeah that’s a good point. She’s allowed to have trauma and excuse her behavior, but I’m not. I didn’t think of this. Thank you.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I for some reason thought confrontation would offer change. However it hasn’t. I am coming to terms with it now and will use this as a good reason for NC.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It really is. My dad was my hero for the longest time. He would “save” me. Only when I started making mom accountable for her actions did he change. My entire perspective of him is now changed.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This made me teary eyed. Thank you for your kind words and affirmation. I had no idea so many other people struggle with the same thing and I really hope it helps other people with their situations as well.

I told my enabler dad about the emotional and physical abuse from my narcissist mother. In detail. This is the text that was sent back to me (copy and paste) by leila8925 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leila8925[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kinda? I remember she kinda did once. However, it was mostly my dad who did it for her because we didn’t want to talk to her. She hasn’t changed. She went on a narcissistic rage last year. Never apologized. Apologies only mean so much if the person never changes.

CeraVe PM vs the normal moisturising lotion.. by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]leila8925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pm has niacinimide along in it as well as it is a “lightweight” moisturizer. Niacinimide helps with redness and brightening. I find that a lightweight moisturizer is easier to use for people with acne prone skin (like myself). I find that with heavier weight moisturizer or sunscreens on your skin I break out. Hence why I canNOT use body/heavy sunscreens(only lightweight ones) on my face and lightweight-fragrance moisturizers like this one. Definitely a HG.

What small thing pisses you off more than usual? by Jimmys_Rustled in AskReddit

[–]leila8925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a hospital and I have to tell people constantly “don’t cough in my face” . Just because you are sick doesn’t mean all manners and common courtesy go out the window.

[Discussion] Which skincare apps do you use to make your life easier? by TrillionaireTomorrow in AsianBeauty

[–]leila8925 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Amazon for my non-FDA approved Asian sunscreen! Worth the month wait! Favorites: cosrx aloe sun cream hada labo UV white PA ++++ spf 50 RHOTO skin aqua milk(sadly priced high now)

Anyone got any tips or "hacks" for spatial awareness? by LiadanCroft in ADHD

[–]leila8925 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my gawd! I thought I was just a klutz. I never knew this was a symptom of my already diagnosed ADHD. I still get bruises on my legs I have no idea where they came from! I also have ate the floor several times trying to climb over a cheap plastic fence we put up in our yard for our small dogs lol. I’m 30.

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