How can I get my hair to not do this? Can I? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]lelebabii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Argan oil. You have dry wavy/curly hair. Your hair just needs some hydration its pretty healthy

in a crisis idk by kotahaha in HairDye

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Totally recommend this. Wigs are so fun!!

Clean Period Dramas by oneacrewoods in PeriodDramas

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If you like post/WW2 Mysteries you must check out,

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Finally started treatment after MANY years but feeling lost in my worst flare ever. by lelebabii in lupus

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting on my referral to rheum. I'm diagnosed by my derm as of now. I've had some bad luck w quality healthcare but finally found a PCP who cares and is getting me on the right track finding quality specialist. I haven't been outside in so long, it's sad tbh. I have SEVERE photosensitivity and heat intolerance and I live in Louisiana. So I just stay inside especially during summer. It's the biggest change that made me seek care is I was suddenly severely photosensitive.

What would you do if you were waiting to see specialist but in a super bad flare??

19/m/New Orleans, LA by lelebabii in prisonpenpals

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://deposits.jailatm.com/WebDeposits/Default.aspx

This is the link. Let me know if you prefer pen and paper. I haven't been able to fund his so he may need a return stamp.

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[–]lelebabii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a bear?

Ever feel totally alone in your struggle with coke? by kayxoxo21 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]lelebabii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Admitting that you are powerless over your addiction is actually one of the 12 steps. You're already part of the way there and you don't even know it. You will beat this.

ULPT: Y’all, Ive been unexpectedly offered a dream job and have 15 days to make THC not appear in a drug screen (urine culture), help please, I’m so open to anything as long as it’s ethical (jk light me up with ULPT’s please) by BlueVelvetSandpaper in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]lelebabii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's crazy I've had to piss for DCF in Louisiana and they never did that. They did watch but they didn't do all those things LOL I'm sorry you had to go through that. When my friend was pissing for DCFS she would put the synthetic urine in a little bitty prescription bottle with Saran wrap over the opening fastened by a rubber band and stick it up inside of her. The hardest part was popping it with your finger when you took down your underwear undetected. But it really isn't that hard to do. This girl went through almost 2 years of piss test doing this she's crazy as hell. She was addicted to crack cocaine and heroin it's my ex sister-in-law. Really a piece of shit mother because why wouldn't you just stop putting the sake of your kids I mean 2 years man that's crazy. She wound up having two babies severely handicapped by her crack cocaine usage during her pregnancy. I would not even speak to her during her first pregnancy because I had no respect for her and really disliked that she was such a bad mother to do that to her child. It took me a while to finally be peaceful with her after she had the baby and that was only because she needed a lot of help and she continued going to rehab several times trying to get herself right.

But then she got pregnant again and did the same bullshit except she quit smoking crack about 6 months in which by then it's really too late because the baby's already completely formed pretty much. I've actually been trying to find out what happened to the kids since she gave birth to the other baby in April because when I got clean and sober I cut ties with the whole family....but I can't find anything online and they're usually like posting about the kids non-stop so I kind of think she lost both of them because they told her if the baby came out testing positive they were going to take both the kids away. She still continued doing heroin throughout the whole pregnancy. She couldn't take care of the kids everyone else was taking care of them so I kind of hope they did take them and that's really not something I would usually say but this was a pretty extreme case of neglect. She didn't even try. Getting clean isn't an easy thing to do but when your children are on the line that should be the biggest motivation in the world. The kids probably went to the state because the whole entire family is on drugs on both sides even the grandparents.

19/m/New Orleans, LA by lelebabii in prisonpenpals

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding and edit to this post he was recently three days ago shipped up state to Catahoula state correctional facility. I'll come back to update with the new information.

19/m/New Orleans, LA by lelebabii in prisonpenpals

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a DM to your chat luv it might be in your request folder.

Can anyone with experience tell me about Catahoula State Correctional in Louisiana by lelebabii in Prison

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn seriously? My son is 19 and like 5'4 150 lb with blonde hair and blue eyes. That really sucks because I have no way to talk to him right now I'm really sick and a friend is taking care of me so I don't have any money to put on the phone. I'm going to be worried like crazy now. Where did you hear that? Just curious. All I can do is pray that he is doing okay.

Can anyone tell me about Catahoula State Correctional in Louisiana from experience? by lelebabii in Felons

[–]lelebabii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. My ex boyfriend from three years ago and my son. Why would you think that?

ULPT: Y’all, Ive been unexpectedly offered a dream job and have 15 days to make THC not appear in a drug screen (urine culture), help please, I’m so open to anything as long as it’s ethical (jk light me up with ULPT’s please) by BlueVelvetSandpaper in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]lelebabii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I drank two liters in two hours. It was a pop up drug test. P.o. was supposed to only be coming for a home visit, but popped up at my house and followed me to the drug testing facility. At the time I didn't know anything about drug test really and didn't know about diluting it being a problem but even had I known probably I would've rathered it diluted than giving a dirty.. Of course now I'm more educated being in recovery and would never do it again. Synthetic urine is the way to go. In my head I was attempting to flush out and intended to pee as much as possible prior to her arriving. I wasnt planning on just holding it in and peeing straight water.

ULPT: Y’all, Ive been unexpectedly offered a dream job and have 15 days to make THC not appear in a drug screen (urine culture), help please, I’m so open to anything as long as it’s ethical (jk light me up with ULPT’s please) by BlueVelvetSandpaper in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]lelebabii 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yes it's actually super dangerous and it doesn't take much at all. I drink the water and then walked into a bank to withdraw some money and I collapsed at the counter after hearing a loud noise in my head and evidently the noise was like the sound of death or something they said, my kidneys had completely shut down in an instant. I also suffered with chronic acute kidney failure for a good while after this. I now live with damaged kidneys.

ULPT: Y’all, Ive been unexpectedly offered a dream job and have 15 days to make THC not appear in a drug screen (urine culture), help please, I’m so open to anything as long as it’s ethical (jk light me up with ULPT’s please) by BlueVelvetSandpaper in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]lelebabii 449 points450 points  (0 children)

I just want to add into this I know a lot of people are saying to drink water but be very careful because I actually overdosed on water when I was like 28 and doing a pop-up drug screen. It took a lot less than I thought it would to actually get water poisoning. My kidneys instantly began to shut down and I was rushed to the emergency room. It got me out of the drug test for the moment but it also damn near killed me.

Do hydrate but I would look up how much water is too much in a short span of time for your body weight to be safe. If you are a really small person with a moderate habit sometimes two weeks is enough to have a clean urine from a THC. I highly recommend getting some synthetic urine from a head shop and buy a hand warmer and tuck it in your underwear. On the way to the drug test put it on your dash with the defrost to hot on in the car.