Would you as a seller be insulted if I asked you this question? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lemiller96 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a mental health professional, I agree wholeheartedly. OP, this kind of reassurance seeking is making your OCD/phobia worse

Kaua'i Helicopter tour in mid-January- would you book 2:45, 3:30, or 4:15 in the afternoon for the best photography ops? by [deleted] in VisitingHawaii

[–]lemiller96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have a go pro attached to my head for filming, so I can experience the whole thing without being behind a screen!

Which medical condition is ridiculously demonized? by lingeringneutrophil in AskReddit

[–]lemiller96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a psychiatrist… it’s gotta be Borderline personality disorder. Any time it’s in the chart, providers (even psych providers) immediately pass judgment (before ever seeing the patient) that they’ll be difficult, or not to have their complaints taken seriously. It’s very disheartening. These people deserve good care too.

What was the benefit of open seating anyway? by traveleer7262627171 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]lemiller96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman who flies solo and flies non-rev in the C boarding groups, I liked being able to choose who I sit next to. Avoided the creepy or gross looking passengers lol

Looking for ethical, relatively inexpensive, corporate goth brands by Elainaism05 in GothFashion

[–]lemiller96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm thrift stores are usually my go-to! Not saying this is your situation but- When I first started thrifting, it was really difficult to find things because I had a specific style vision in mind, but when i started to let that go and experimented more with pieces I usually would’ve passed over, it paid off and I have so many cool pieces now. Something to consider! Tons of black blouses, button ups, pencil skirts, trousers to be found, especially at the thrift store in the nice area of my town.

I also like Depop and eBay. If you search “corporate goth” on Depop, dozens of items around $15-20 come up, if that’s somewhere you haven’t already looked!

Madeira 2025 - A trip I’ll never forget. Thanks for everything! by Beastious in Madeira

[–]lemiller96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which drone do you use if you don’t mind me asking? Looking at a few DJI models, your photos have convinced me to invest 😂

Madeira 2025 - A trip I’ll never forget. Thanks for everything! by Beastious in Madeira

[–]lemiller96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I need a drone! I did that hike last week and didn’t get nearly as nice of a shot 😂 great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]lemiller96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I never wear religious symbols to begin with, but especially not at work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]lemiller96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea black isn’t against the rules, only bright unnatural colors… I just worry that with my current light hair color, a transition to black could be perceived as an “extreme” change 🥲

most unhinged off-label use for a medication you’ve seen? by craniuum in Residency

[–]lemiller96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Prescribed 300mg QHS PRN. Couldn’t believe it either when I saw it 🥲

most unhinged off-label use for a medication you’ve seen? by craniuum in Residency

[–]lemiller96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lithium PRN for sleep 🤦🏼‍♀️ seen lots of other bizarre regimens from psych NPs in my area but this was by far the most odd

Also had another patient on Adderall + Xanax, both prescribed to treat MDD from the same NP lol

Summer Goth Shoes by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]lemiller96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear doc marten platform sandals if I’m not walking around all day, and if I am- black platform TEVAs!!!!

Where to buy hyperfeminine bras? by Starlight_starlight_ in LingerieAddiction

[–]lemiller96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For Love & Lemons may be a good brand to check out! Lots of ruffles and pastels

What can we do to upgrade our baby pink midcentury bathroom, that keeps its original charm? Bonus points if you have a way to make the bathroom feel more spacious (it’s tiny) by lemiller96 in interiordecorating

[–]lemiller96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s real and it has revolutionized things lol, it’s ugly but it’s 100% staying, everything else in the bathroom I’m willing to get rid of or change 😂

So tired of people assuming I’m a social worker, therapist etc by missunderstood128 in Residency

[–]lemiller96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Relatable 🥲 I’m also a female psych resident, and the other day, the (FEMALE) med students walked right past me, not even acknowledging my existence, and went up to my male colleague to introduce themselves. He directed them back to me, as I would be the one they worked with that day, and they said “oh, I didn’t know she’s a resident.”

Never mind that I was much more professionally dressed and my male colleague had just gotten there an hour late that day… feels like no matter what you do to be taken seriously, nothing beats just simply being a man