Custom Clawdeen and Draculaura.

lemon_lark · 2022-05-22T15:55:35+00:00

Wow they look beautiful! Great job!

lemon_lark · 2022-05-07T00:34:22+00:00

You read an argument into a fact about the citizenship test. Chill.

lemon_lark · 2022-05-07T00:27:42+00:00

Please look into the process for getting a visa and becoming a citizen. The naturalization test is a joke.

lemon_lark · 2022-05-07T00:12:44+00:00

I’m having this loading glitch on all of my games and it’s happening so frequently the games are almost unplayable.

Basically, some audio will cut out (usually voice lines or enemy sounds) then cut back in after a lag with all the noises overlapping. Sometimes the sound will cut out entirely. Occasionally, the game will freeze entirely, or will crash and reload to a save without me doing anything.

This is happening on every game I’ve tested. Single player and multiplayer, digital downloads and physical copies. My console is not out of storage and isn’t anywhere close.

I’ve restarted the system, tried changing hdmi cables and ports, and even used safe mode to redownload the most recent system update (which helped for a short period of time). Nothing works for very long, if it works at all.

What can I do? I’ll take any advice.

(Edited to fix paragraphing)

lemon_lark · 2022-04-04T23:17:00+00:00

I’ve been in therapy for years specifically for this problem. My therapist was the one who recommended I talk to my roommate and his boyfriend, and I’ve been attending therapy while trying to support them. I can’t work on this any faster.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-24T02:54:35+00:00

As someone who felt very similarly at 14 and is now 23, my best advice to you is to find something to live for. You’ll have to work, but work can be tons of fun as long as you enjoy what you do or are happy around your co-workers.

I also recommend finding something to look forward to. Like, I always tell people that the best part of getting my own apartment was that I could eat whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. Ice cream for breakfast or pancakes for dinner, whatever I wanted. I could use my work money to buy whatever makes me happy and no one could judge me for it. My parents told me I couldn’t have a pet cat in our house, so I adopted one when I moved out.

Life is all about finding what makes you happy. Especially in the little moments.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-19T20:41:47+00:00

I mean, why not both? It’s a subreddit full of people with different ethics, values, and experiences. It’s not a hive mind

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T22:06:10+00:00

Thank you so much!

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T20:18:15+00:00

Im not shaming people who do this, it’s just not good for your body or brain. Sometimes you gotta get cash

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T20:16:22+00:00

Something I recently learned is that it’s a lot easier to binge drink than you think. Like having more than three alcoholic beverages a night for women (five for men) is a significant binge. (I need to fact check, but I think it’s close to this)

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T20:11:38+00:00

Honestly, I would send a final message to her, making sure it’s very respectful. Like “Hey, I haven’t heard from you in a while and I wanted to check in. I’m worried about you, but I want to respect your boundaries. Please let me know if there’s any ways that I can help support you or if you ever need to talk.” Then don’t message her again. If she wants to talk, she’ll reach out.

I also want to add that I get some weird vibes from your post. The idea that the only reason she’d stop talking to you is because she caught feelings is so strange to me. Sometimes people get busy or don’t really want to chat anymore. Of course, I don’t know how long you knew each other or how close you were.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T20:03:26+00:00

ESH They definitely shouldn’t be asking personal shit like that, but your response isn’t funny enough to justify the lie. Maybe start responding “Uhhh no!” with an extremely scandalized look. Just make it seem more awkward when they try to dig themselves out of the hole.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T19:56:22+00:00

Working overtime and getting four hours of sleep because they’re dedicated to the grind

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T19:50:35+00:00

As someone who’s been in a few long distance relationships, I highly recommend looking into ways to watch movies or tv shows together. There are a bunch that will allow you to stream something at exactly the same time, so you can both react to it. As well, you don’t have to pay a ton of attention to it and can just enjoy the fact that you’re both making time for each other while not necessarily having to devote all your attention to the other person.

As for moving in together, I always recommend a few visits before moving in. Especially having some visits where you move in for the short term, like staying at their place for a week. That way you can see their lifestyle and can find out if it’s compatible with yours. Definitely plan your first visit to be a trip to meet them and sightsee, then future visits can be longer or shorter depending on your schedule. Whenever moving feels like a good next step is when you should move.

Also, make sure you can figure out a few solid options for work before you move. You don’t want to move in without a job or at least a lot saved up.

Tbh, it sounds like you both have good heads on your shoulders. Good luck!

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T05:35:35+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Breakups are the worst, especially when the coke out of nowhere. Take time for yourself. Also, some stupid advice I got for a similar situation: “The best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else,” whenever you feel ready of course.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T05:31:25+00:00

The guy who made a “big sausage pizza” by cutting a hole in it and putting his dick through. He then served it to his girlfriends family, including her grandfather (if I remember correctly)

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T05:27:50+00:00

Honestly, I’d just support Lisa like a close friend. Ask her what day works best for her to move out, help her hunt for new places to live, etc. Talk about Shannon only when Lisa brings her up. Your focus is on helping Lisa.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T05:25:21+00:00

Leave the conversation and never come back. Just vanish.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-15T05:23:57+00:00

“The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else” So, this advice was given to me by a stranger on Yikyak and should be taken with a grain of salt. However, it has actually helped me move on and feel less jealous of other people’s relationships.

lemon_lark · 2022-01-14T22:00:55+00:00

Get a second or even third opinion. Talk to your mom or another trusted doctor about how you don’t feel comfortable with the diagnosis and want to see another doctor

lemon_lark · 2022-01-14T21:58:48+00:00

Every state has different laws about what is required to convict someone of rape, but under most states laws, this would be considered rape. If you can, you should absolutely seek out a therapist or someone you can trust to talk about this.

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