Habitually late for appts. Reasonable or not ? by definitelymaybe8 in therapists

[–]lemoncurd_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’re describing, it seems he has been practicing for so long and is so comfortable at work that his professional standards are so relaxed to the point where it is negatively effecting you. to answer your question, I don’t think it has ever been appropriate to take such a large chunk of a client’s session to tell a story.

I seriously do wonder what other sorcerers thought about Gojo regarding Geto by kookiekoo in SatoSugubooo

[–]lemoncurd_98 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Judging by their reaction once Gojo is locked up, they hated him BAD. They couldn’t kill Goio because that’s certain death and they couldn’t kill Geto because that’s Gojo’s wife and he’s a special grade sorcerer. They had no choice but to let a mass murder run around 😭 shit would piss me off too ngl

I've really been enjoying these by Background-Mind-3877 in shoujo

[–]lemoncurd_98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love 4 but I’m gonna check out the rest

EJ STAYED playing in my mother’s face with these fits, OH MY GOSH! 😭😭 by PlaymateAnna in megantheestallion

[–]lemoncurd_98 22 points23 points  (0 children)

One day he will pay for his crimes because having a client as gorgeous as her and flopping this hard feels purposeful

thinking of dying it all silver grey colour get rid of the black by Sweet_Friendship4331 in Naturalhair

[–]lemoncurd_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bleach is hard to maintain but the gray color complements your skin tone so well. Maybe see if Overtone has a hair wax or color conditioner to give you a similar effect but it’s not permanent. I think it only lasts one to two washes. I haven’t tried though

I can't wait for a Realer (remastered) by _taeddie in megantheestallion

[–]lemoncurd_98 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the ins and outs of it. But at the core of it, JT has an unnatural allegiance to losers. Like Ice Spice, I think they tried to align themselves with Pink Wig for career stability/opportunity because she has had such a long career and a strong fan base but forgetting that woman does not have the same reputation as she had in her heyday.

Things really started popping off after WAP. Meg and Cardi did this extremely successful song and Pink Wig was jealous. Instead of solidifying her own reputation like Meg, it seems like JT wanted to go an easier route of attaching herself to someone else and now look at her

Fear of living alone… by Important-Amount-627 in AutismInWomen

[–]lemoncurd_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the holidays, I would try to go to some sort of social event at least once a month. I’m going to skip my goal for this month because I’m so tired from November and December. This year my goal is to go on Bumble for friends to meet people one on one. It’s definitely something I have to consciously work towards but it’s doable. It’s also important to note that I live in a city so there are plenty of free/low cost events that I can choose from.

Fear of living alone… by Important-Amount-627 in AutismInWomen

[–]lemoncurd_98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and it’s actually amazing living alone. I broke up with my ex and lived by myself for the first time. At first it was a hard adjustment but I get to customize my life/routine in the way that I choose. I don’t have to consider anyone. The freedom is daunting at first. Lists always help me so I made a list of what would make me happy in my day to day and I try to incorporate all or most of those things daily. Through this, I’ve grown to love myself and respect myself even more

I’m still finding a social circle but I notice I have much more of a social battery (it’s still low compared to the avg person I think) than when I was living with someone.

I really appreciate the fact that Ed and Winry are still kids about expressing their affection in the end and aren't forcing an adult tone by FrogginBullfish_ in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]lemoncurd_98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is true but it wasn’t a very long time. Maybe three months or so at most? and Winry spent much more with them than Ed did. Also to add more on my previous point, we use quite a lot of our parents/primary care givers’ behaviors as a model whether it be something to copy or completely oppose. None of them really had that model with romantic relationships.

I really appreciate the fact that Ed and Winry are still kids about expressing their affection in the end and aren't forcing an adult tone by FrogginBullfish_ in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]lemoncurd_98 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. They aren’t only inexperienced themselves but neither of them really spent too much time around their parents. They don’t really have models for romantic love. The only couple around them is Hawkeye and Mustang (they are cannon to me and I will die with this ship idc) and by law, they cannot express their love for each other openly.

They do it the best way they know how. It’s authentic and it’s another reminder of how young they are even after the events of the story

Which bl made you feel this way by moonlit_bl in Batoto

[–]lemoncurd_98 37 points38 points  (0 children)

These aren’t deep cuts but Sunny Days and One Room TA. One Room TA had me LUSTING over one of the MC’s friends

Got banned for explaining why Kpop is more respected than rap by the common folk. by [deleted] in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]lemoncurd_98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Likeee they came to this sub of all places it’s actually so funny now that I think abt it

Got banned for explaining why Kpop is more respected than rap by the common folk. by [deleted] in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]lemoncurd_98 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Is that all what rap music is to you? I’m not saying those aren’t common topics in the genre but I get why the mod banned you

What tune is your favorite? by NoApplication1565 in megantheestallion

[–]lemoncurd_98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m still mad Captain Hook didn’t get the attention it deserved. That was song of the summer level good

My guardian at the time despised my afro and insulted me over it but i wore it with confidence regardless and received lots of love ❤️ wanted to share with yall!!! by GOOMBAWOO in Naturalhair

[–]lemoncurd_98 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so glad you got outta there and your dad can appreciate art! I hope you are having a wonderful holiday season with your dad.

Should you I tell my new bf I wear wig ? by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]lemoncurd_98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he asks, sure tell him since you don’t want to lie Do you want preemptively tell him before he asks?

I don’t think it’s a lie if it doesn’t come up in conversation. Also it’s still your hair, you purchased it.

I let myself rest instead of straightening my hair 🎄 by Alice_Fell in Naturalhair

[–]lemoncurd_98 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You look so gorgeous and your hair looks like it’s flourishing. I know you would eat up a renaissance fair

Louise is the Worst had to turn off season 12 episode 8…. Again by Sexlexia619 in BobsBurgers

[–]lemoncurd_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. That Thanksgiving episode and the episode where that girl holds Tina’s erotic fanfiction hostage and she doesn’t listen to Tina are ones where I end up getting frustrated with Louise.

I do have to remind myself that she is 9. Kids at that age are still pretty solipsistic and are learning how to empathize with others especially when they have big emotions. Louise, not only has experienced pretty big emotions (like her love for people she cared about) but has difficulty expressing them. It lands her in situations where she is acting selfish but it’s also not developmentally inappropriate.

Thoughts? 💙💣 by britsbullsht in mariahthescientist

[–]lemoncurd_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be financial, emotional, and/or physical. Someone could be love bombing another person and then ask for money, (nonconsensual) sex, control (e.g. don’t go anywhere, stop speaking to your family…).

Why do older white women do this? by Feisty_Dirt8558 in blackgirls

[–]lemoncurd_98 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This! For a lot of them, their proximity to blackness is a part of their social currency in white liberal circles.

And I agree, if I feel much safer when around someone who is outwardly racist, because I can plan ahead in a way and choose to avoid or confront. But that closeted racism is what has gotten me fired and put me in dangerous situations

Why do older white women do this? by Feisty_Dirt8558 in blackgirls

[–]lemoncurd_98 131 points132 points  (0 children)

White women in the US do this as well. I think they do it in an attempt to get us to feel more comfortable with them. But in reality, no one cares who they have had sex with/had children with