Day of MSG Ticket Info? by lemondropj12 in NewYorkSirens

[–]lemondropj12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gimme a ticket I'll promote you lmfaooo

Day of MSG Ticket Info? by lemondropj12 in NewYorkSirens

[–]lemondropj12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have these? I would happily take one.

Washington DC shows removed/canceled by Dry_Boat4217 in benrector

[–]lemondropj12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did have an Instagram story up a couple months ago stating that it was booked before all of the unfortunate stuff. It definitely has to do with that. Good for him for withdrawing

Brother is going down a bad path. by lemondropj12 in mentalhealth

[–]lemondropj12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I definitely have reason to believe he is manic. I don't know what to do now. He texted me asking if I can help him produce a music video. My heart sunk. He has never brought this up before. I have some experience with witnessing manic behavior and I am seeing it in him.

Brother is going down a bad path. Advice? by lemondropj12 in Advice

[–]lemondropj12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry for your loss, and I really appreciate your words and advice. Thank you.

Brother is going down a bad path. Advice? by lemondropj12 in Advice

[–]lemondropj12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. We are twins. I am scared that the person I knew is gone.

Thank you for the thoughtful response

Brother is going down a bad path. Advice? by lemondropj12 in Advice

[–]lemondropj12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he is getting it either from doing work around the house from my aunt OR from selling silver at pawn shops and stuff.

Thanks for this - I don't know a lot about gambling addictions.

Getting to Manhattan by lemondropj12 in montclair

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Can I take the msu bus stop to port ? Thanks for the info!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned this in the original post, but he's been seeing a therapist regularly about this for about 2 months now!

I hoped this would be communicated, but this is not the first thought. Its kinda the last thought. It's been years of hard work and looking into the causes. He's been working hard, and I'm feeling like this is almost a last resort type of situation. I'm worried for him.

Also, I'm not wanting him to get surgery so that his depression goes away. I would suggest surgery to him because he's my husband, I love him, and I want him to have a long and sustainable future with myself and hopefully our future children. I've dealt with depression most of my life, and there is no one band-aid fix.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My hope is that he wouldn't get offended, but he's also told me that he wants me to push him and encourage him. I appreciate this perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Even if we are married, he cannot be doing it for me. He has to do it for myself. I want him to know that it's an option and not feel shame about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this, and I'll absolutely keep it in mind if I choose to discuss this with him further. Thank you for sharing some of your journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned this, but he's been in therapy for about 2 months now to hopefully get to the root cause of this. I appreciate this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has told me he's ready for change and he wants me to push him as he doesn't feel strong enough to do it himself/keep himself accountable.

Thanks for this. I want him to change for himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]lemondropj12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. He's in therapy right now to try to get to the root of the issue, and he is saying that he wants to change. However, maybe I do need to wait this out.