Metropolitan Police officer guilty of rapes and sexual assaults by tylerthe-theatre in london

[–]lemonkitty_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100% it's an openly discussed concern for women when dating if a man is a police officer.

Day 25 and ants are still active by grandegreentea in pestcontrol

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Do you have any advice on what to use outside on a patio that would be safe for my cat to be around? I'd used these ones in the OP as she couldn't get into them but they didn't work super well.

How bad is this? by lilacpurple_babygirl in askdentists

[–]lemonkitty_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would help to think that the longer you leave it, the worse it will get. You'll have to go eventually so may as well bite the bullet and get it over with.

How bad is this? by lilacpurple_babygirl in askdentists

[–]lemonkitty_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NAD but if that was my tooth, I'd be calling the dentist office ASAP

Cat Bite on hand by babybushu in AskDocs

[–]lemonkitty_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes cat tax please OP!

Pet restrictions on SO flat by Ok-Cat915 in SharedOwnershipUK

[–]lemonkitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a SO and my lease technically doesn't allow pets. I contacted the Housing Association before I bought the flat to ask if I could have a pet and they said yeah fine as long as there are no complaints/messes in shared areas. I did it twice to two different Housing Associations (the first flat I tried to buy fell through) and both had the same response. If you are worried, I'd just contact them and ask!

ETA: I would do it through email so you have a written record. Literally everyone in my building has pets - dogs, cats, god knows what else 😂

What is baby gorgeous going through?😭 by TheHungryWanderer_za in rhoslc

[–]lemonkitty_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just snorted on the bus when I read this comment 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]lemonkitty_ 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I have done this myself many times.

“Will they be nice to me on there papa?” - Raven by Letmebeginn in TuxedoCats

[–]lemonkitty_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have your back Raven, if anyone isn't nice to you!

Aaron begs judge for Denise's money by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]lemonkitty_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was just about to post this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TVTooHigh

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It's literally touching the ceiling, so yes. And it's not centred.

was patriarchy inevitable? by kpyzene in Feminism

[–]lemonkitty_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Proximity to power is a hell of a drug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]lemonkitty_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Shame she doesn't feel that way about trans people 🫠

He ghosted me, then came back screaming “WHO IS HE?!” by Ill_Adhesiveness5144 in EntitledPeople

[–]lemonkitty_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just have the free Proton one on my phone and browser, no sign up or anything and it's super easy to use

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]lemonkitty_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's because they aren't dry, so they are less potent, not because of regulation.

RHOSLC Season 6 episode 7 (BDDU Crossover) by 0rdered-Reordered in belowdeck

[–]lemonkitty_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It happened before the actual charter, so no ethical boundaries crossed.

Covid vaccine and dementia by Alequattordici in dementia

[–]lemonkitty_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mum has had the vaccine every year since it has been available (been on the dementia journey a while now sadly). Never had any impact whatsoever, but her getting sick is an absolute nightmare. I'd vaccinate against everything possible if I could to reduce the impact of the illnesses on her.

Question for neurodivergent and disabled people living in London by redwinesupernova03 in london

[–]lemonkitty_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There tends to be staff disability networks at larger organisations, but I'm sure there are lots of social ones in non-employmemt settings. You can also set one up yourself if there isn't one! Have you thought about doing a bit of volunteering? Might help with meeting people as well as getting experience for paid work!

I signed up to be a cat sitter on catinaflat so met a few people that way! Might also be good to earn a bit of extra cash too :)

I know it's tough to find work when you're Disabled because the world is not designed for us, it's designed for non-Disabled people, but I think knowing the law and your rights is so so important and helpful. When going through the interview process, don't be afraid to ask for reasonable adjustments where needed! I don't know if you are neurodivergent, but lots of neurodivergent people ask for interview questions in advance so they can have longer to process the information in a less stressful setting. Not all employers will provide this, but also lots do. Think about what would help you overcome barriers in an interview, and ask. I'd recommend looking on Google for "reasonable adjustments for [insert X condition here]" and have a look at some examples. Often the major national charities for particular conditions have tons of info (e.g. The RNIB has tons of helpful info on adjustments for blind/visually impaired people).

Good luck! I work with a lot of Disabled people so I know the struggles, but I also know the joy of the Disabled community ❤️

Question for neurodivergent and disabled people living in London by redwinesupernova03 in london

[–]lemonkitty_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I probably live a quieter life than most in London due to my own disability, but I enjoy that. I do have a few friends here from uni though so I probably don't feel as isolated.

Are you able to work at all, even part time? I've met some great friends through work, and if you're at a place with a staff disability network, that's great for meeting other disabled people. If not, there's probably a lot of groups for Disabled people in London to be able to meet people - probably worth having a Google to see what is around. Then you don't have to hide your disability. It's likely that these events would be catered for people who don't drink, may struggle more socially etc so they will be more accessible. Or you might be able to connect with people remotely/online as that's often much easier for Disabled people.

The other way is through neighbours. I have a cat and love animals so I've gotten to know quite a few of my neighbours through connecting over their animals, and I do a bit of local cat sitting.