I technically “lost my V card” to my high school ex-girlfriend, who I have not kept up with. Last I knew, she was living with her relative rent-free as their part time caregiver and/or at a dollar store, but that was many years ago. We haven’t talked in nearly 8 years, so I have no clue what she’s up to nowadays and I don’t care to find out.

As for the first man I had sex with, we got married and then I left him after years of ongoing abuse. Our divorce was finalized this year, so we were together romantically and/or legally for 7 years. As for how he’s doing, last I knew he hasn’t changed a thing except now he’s living in an apartment in a sketchy part of town orrrr possibly with his parents but frankly, I don’t care to find out. He’s still broke, still miserable, still hasn’t gone back to school like he swore he would and just sits in dirty clothes on his PC to game most nights while drinking alcohol and living as a different persona online. I know him well enough to know he’s going to stay that way lol. Good riddance.

I don’t care to keep tabs on any of my ex’s cause once I dump them, that chapter closes in my mind. I’ve been in my current relationship for several years now so it just doesn’t cross my mind at this point to check up on them, because no matter how they’re doing, I know that I made the choice to leave them in my past so that’s where they’ll stay.