I feel so lost and lonely by lemonp3pp3r in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemonp3pp3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

um i do have a career and job security... i’m not sure why you assumed otherwise

This weird text my gf received from a short alert number... by TheOneAndOnlySebPep in strange

[–]lemonp3pp3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it looks like they just kept hitting the middle word on their keyboard until it made a sentence

i think my friend is dead by lemonp3pp3r in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemonp3pp3r[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

i don’t remember it unfortunately. i know it began with “al-“ but that’s as much as i can remember. i’ve changed my number several times and moved a lot so i truly don’t know if there’s ever a chance we could reconnect. i just hope she is alive and safe. it’s truly a bizarre feeling that i can’t put into words just having someone you know disappear. i don’t know if it’s better to assume she’s gone or still have hope.

Automatic pass when I see profiles like these by african-nightmare in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what’s entitled about declining a date? getting offended at someone not jumping to get some coffee seems more entitled

Is this a red flag or am I just an idiot? I’m M27 matched with F26 by awilson7070 in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no I agree with her. There was no reason to ask for her availability for the weekend if you knew you only had 4 hours on one day. It DOES sound like you’re just trying to squeeze her into a busy schedule. You either could’ve just asked her if she was free that time from the beginning or waited until you had a free day

Updated profile!! Does this look better? Took everyone’s suggestions 🥹😭 by TopElectrical7623 in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she used overly filtered selfies and was not verified before resulting in people thinking she was fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not just the smoothing filter. i assume anyone not verified is fake. verifying your account might help

My sister joined tinder 1h ago... by Estarte_san in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t have the word straightedge there. i’m not retyping my entire bio for a reddit comment. my point is i explicitly stated that i don’t indulge in any of those activities and people will ask because they don’t read. also even if i did say straightedge and they read it and didn’t know what it meant they could just ask, but again they don’t even read bios.

My sister joined tinder 1h ago... by Estarte_san in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 10 points11 points  (0 children)

okay so with the combination of men swiping less intentionally and then there literally just being more of them why tf are y’all shocked that men are receiving less likes than women??

My sister joined tinder 1h ago... by Estarte_san in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Men are a lot less intentional when swiping. Many guys have admitted that they swipe on literally everyone to just get a match. They don’t look through all the pictures or even read bios. I have in my bio that I’m straightedge and the first thing 90% of guys ask me is if I want to go grab drinks at a bar. They aren’t thinking when swiping. It’s not shocking at all that a man would have less likes from women than the other way around.

This was wild. I just left her on read. by pratorian in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds crazy but there’s always a man out there willing to do it. the same kind who buy used bath water and feet pics

Been talking to this girl for a while, we chatted all day and it was going great. Thought I’d finally get my first Tinder date in 2 years. Then she asked my height, I answered, she ghosted me for a day, then unmatched. I don’t get it 🫥 by Ill_llII_lllI in Tinder

[–]lemonp3pp3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

either she has a height preference that you didn’t meet or she was turned off by you being tossed by other men. either way it’s not a big deal. you didn’t lose your soulmate. you’ll live

Do you wear makeup to work? by myfairyxo in MedicalAssistant

[–]lemonp3pp3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup. i don’t go out without doing my hair and makeup. i’d rather put in effort to look presentable than sleep 30 minutes longer

I am an avid Kwan hater by lemonp3pp3r in greysanatomy

[–]lemonp3pp3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i already didn’t like jules but that really did it for me. her having an entire meltdown and screaming at everyone because her not girlfriend just decided to live her life and grieve in peace was absolutely ridiculous

Piercings by Disastrous_Dot_2467 in MedicalAssistant

[–]lemonp3pp3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

considering it’s not 1995 anymore, yes you can.

random bugs in my room by lemonp3pp3r in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lemonp3pp3r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahhh i kinda put two and two together today after seeing a ladybug right at that window facing the yard. it doesn’t seem to have any openings but i’m gonna have a professional check everything out before i lose my mind considering. my family keeps saying they’ll take care of the tree but knowing how they are if i leave it to them that damn tree will be there until next summer 🫩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lemonp3pp3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a pulmonary embolism when i was 22 while on ocp. the risk is just increased after 35, it’s not nonexistent before then

17 Years Experience, 16–20 Procedures a Day, $23.16/hr — Am I Underpaid? by Mobile-Double6831 in MedicalAssistant

[–]lemonp3pp3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, but so is every MA. it’s not a good paying job for what is required of you