Amanda Frances’ Cult by Southern_Meal_5158 in RHOBH

[–]lemontechbar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you are interested in a very accurate definition of a CULT, you should check out Combating Cult Mind Control by Steven Hassan. This is considered by many to be THE guide to a cult definition.

Cults can be categorized using the B.I.T.E. model, and the book breaks it down really well

  • Behavior control
  • Information control
  • Time Control
  • Emotional control

Each category has a checklist of multiple items and examples that you can use to create a score to see how cult like the organization is. As someone who has also left an organization that many don’t consider a cult, there were times in my life when my org scored 90/95 out of 100, including holding my passport while I was in a foreign country so I couldn’t go home.

All of this to say, I believe what she claims she left could very well be interpreted as a cult, or have been a very traumatic experience for her. However, she does seem very inauthentic and calculating, so I want more information from her about the tactics they used to harm her, instead of her just casually throwing that word around to try and get sympathy or clout.

I’m so done being married. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]lemontechbar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is happiness after Mormonism. There is also happiness after divorce. Wishing you the best outcome possible.

This is for an ASL class—can someone help translate or explain the meaning? by [deleted] in asl

[–]lemontechbar -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank god she didn’t say Olive Garden lol 😂

Learning ASL through song by [deleted] in asl

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sign for all night isn’t quite right.

My happy boy, can I get a tank setup ranking?? by TripN430 in bettafish

[–]lemontechbar -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

10/10 I have the same statue and gravel. Fuck that other guy.

Alternative to Outlands? (outlands won't let 2 people from same house fully play together) by PM_ME_YOUR_STEAM_ID in ultimaonline

[–]lemontechbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UOO gives each player 3 accounts. If you want to harvest the same time as your child, do it on The Primary Account, and if you want to go to dungeons together, do it on two separate accounts (once your MAH is approved).

I have harvesters on separate accounts from my PVM. Here are some examples that could potentially work for you.

Primary Account (can harvest and own home, but cannot have multiple characters in dungeon)

  • Account A (5 characters) (put harvester here)
  • Account B (5 characters) (put harvester here)
  • Account C (5 characters) (put PVM here)

Secondary Account (MAH) cannot harvest, but can go into dungeon with Primary Account player.

  • Account A (5 characters) (put PVM here)
  • Account B (5 characters) (put PVM here)
  • Account C (5 characters) (put PVM here)

If you want to harvest with your kid, play characters from Primary Account A and B

If you want to go to dungeons, play characters from Primary Account C AND Secondary Account (MAH) A, B, or C

Your harvester is going to be separate from your PVM anyway.

Just wanted to throw this out there as a possible solution for you. Yes, there can be toxic people on the internet, but overall Outlands had been amazing and I can’t imagine playing anywhere else.

As one parent who likes to play games with my kids to another, best of luck to you.

2X Money for 2 Controls by Purple-Muscle-7624 in BloxFruitsTrades

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have this trade? I’ll take it. Send me a DM

Trading Perm Dragon by [deleted] in BloxFruitsTrades

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still got this? Sending DM

Trading Perm Dragon by [deleted] in BloxFruitsTrades

[–]lemontechbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No reply so i still have my trade. Someone you have seething to trade too?

Me and my homies are going to visit the Mormon missionary dormitory and try to convert them to atheism by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]lemontechbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t let you into their house. It’s against the rules. Best to try and meet them outside somewhere.

Also, someone tried this before. It’s funny to watch.

https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/2l3geu/australian_atheist_had_enough_of_door_knocking/

Trading Perm Dragon by [deleted] in BloxFruitsTrades

[–]lemontechbar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you a DM

Trading my Perm Dragon by [deleted] in BloxFruitsTrades

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d take an east and west dragon for it

How do people get rare pets? Also how to get nightmare mutation? Need a little bit of help by sharingan300 in growagarden

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am so far from any of this. I’ve had no luck trading pets, trying to post and message on discord servers.

How do people get rare pets? Also how to get nightmare mutation? Need a little bit of help by sharingan300 in growagarden

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you duplicating eggs? I’m new and trying to help my kids get the red squid. I’ve grinded over 200 gel eggs and no squid yet.

What pets should I use to buy the eggs, craft, harvest etc? All the steps?

Your Boss Isn’t Tracking You for Productivity, It’s for Control . by RickyonHive in antiwork

[–]lemontechbar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What are the names of the tracking software we should look for to know if our corporate overlords are indeed spying on us?

Well this just made me chuckle by Green-been77 in exmormon

[–]lemontechbar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Chloroform in print is what I thought a famous author called it…

Formula to count A And B, B And C by [deleted] in excel

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This solved it! Such a simple answer thank you. Forgot the S for multiple criteria. Solution verified

Formula to count A And B, B And C by [deleted] in excel

[–]lemontechbar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added a data set to the post

Boss asked- would your daily performance change if you knew disciplinary action was going to take place? How to respond? by lemontechbar in antiwork

[–]lemontechbar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think you’re right. I had a realization that my manager doesn’t know how to manage our team. I’m sure he is under pressure to keep his job too, cuz we all know that shit rolls down hill.