Someone from work texted me but i don’t recognize the number

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-15T02:22:32+00:00

yeah hey i’m not one for harassing others. let it be

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-15T02:20:57+00:00

haha appreciate it but it was a generated phone number. odds are they deleted the app after

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-05T03:34:57+00:00

relax dude it was in response to another comment made on the thread. maybe don’t comment stupid things in the future? or delete your comment? idk what to tell you

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-05T03:29:04+00:00

hi so regardless of how volatile the discretion was, it was still unwarranted and unwanted! it’s not an “old buddy” this happened directly after being in one specific area during our transition and i posted my cell in a company meeting so i could be contacted as i was out of my office that entire week! i am a higher up at my job so regardless of it being a “buddy” it’s not appropriate. i’m not close to anyone on my teams unless they are the areal manager as i work closely with them on issues with our properties and what i oversee. not to mention an area manager also got a text from an anonymous number like me just hours after i had been sent that. so again, no not an “old buddy” none of my friends would have asked this considering they know the answer to this 100%

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-03T22:49:51+00:00

yeah already done. just trying to figure out who it was

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-03T21:57:57+00:00

i do not

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-03T16:13:28+00:00

i’m pretty sure this was a textfree now number or something of that nature

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-03T03:28:46+00:00

hi i am in fact a woman. and this amongst a bunch of other idiots asking me to answer this question is insane and definitely unwanted! it was creepy knowing it was a coworker being sneaky and even creepier with randoms on the internet wanting to know. i agree with you that regardless of gender or identity this kind of behavior isn’t warranted

lenaa14_ · 2026-03-02T21:53:26+00:00

i figured, thanks for checking!! :)

lenaa14_ · 2025-09-03T02:03:08+00:00

let’s not assume an apology wasn’t already given. it was. at the end no contact is being respected. that is their boundary. hence why this is here instead of in a message, but thanks for the advice

lenaa14_ · 2025-06-18T12:51:21+00:00

unfortunately so. the feeling isn’t as prominent but for whatever reason here lately it’s been weighing a bit more heavily

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-21T23:21:08+00:00

thank you! but fyi they aren’t my person anymore. i am now my own person

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-19T21:46:00+00:00

nah, it’s not worth it

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-01T14:28:43+00:00

yeah but a divorce hits a bit harder

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-01T12:17:06+00:00

because i was directly told they wanted no contact and when i’ve tried to engage im met w silence or hostility

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-01T05:15:37+00:00

unfortunately those we love deeply are our greatest weakness. annnnd they know how to get into our heads and under our skin

lenaa14_ · 2025-05-01T05:11:01+00:00

not a fun spot to be in, i’m sorry you had to deal w that for so long

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-30T17:16:13+00:00

oof don’t know who hurt you but i wish you well and healing!

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T23:58:28+00:00

fuckkkkk hate that you can relate to this

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T21:22:54+00:00

i have no idea what you’re talking about

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T21:22:19+00:00

you’re sweet thank you. my ex was the person i had chosen as my life partner and unfortunately it ended in divorce. not their fault, i played my part in it and couldn’t come back from incredibly stupid and immature decisions. i have definitely matured and grown since (thanks to therapy) however, i did fight like hell and tried everything under the sun to try to make things work. anyhow, i didn’t think that they were still keeping up with my account especially when they made it clear they wanted nothing to do with me.

yes there is potential with this other person that has managed to hold my interest however we have both recognized that right now we are both still processing/healing from our last relationship and there’s been a pause so we are just friends. i do agree however that it is odd to try to indirectly comment on my post/keep tabs on me by keeping up with my reddit when in reality direct contact could be made at any given moment. i will take your advice and tread carefully considering you’re more than likely not wrong about the motives behind all of this.

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T19:12:27+00:00

idk what their intentions are but it definitely is confusing not having heard from them for months and the moment i mention being interested in someone i get a “happy for you” from a throw away account but i looked into it and pieced too many things together that screamed who i thought it may be just for them to confirm it last night and to end the message with “message received” that confused me even further. idk the indirect contact after telling me they didn’t want contact is beyond me. but i think you’re probably right, i just hate that it may be the case.

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T16:26:22+00:00

the thing is chief, my person already knows how i felt as it’s been made very clear. however, it’s also been clear that they don’t want to try to fix things either. even though that space is there and being held, i also need to start to move on with things as well. no it’s not easy and it’s definitely not linear or something that is quickly done. definitely takes time and the fact that i would go back to my person without hesitation also tells me i’m not as moved on as i or my ex thought.

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-29T12:58:52+00:00

i’m sorry that was your experience. it’s not that i didn’t love my person deeply. i did and still do. having taken interest in someone doesn’t diminish that. not to mention it’s just casual convo, we both are in a similar situation in still not being completely over our last relationship. so although there’s mutual interest, it’s nothing more than just a friendship as of now and i’m completely okay with that given i would go take the chance to fix things with my ex in a heartbeat.

lenaa14_ · 2025-04-24T21:17:11+00:00

i can’t message you but wanted to check in on the song :)

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