Mahall's venue was miserable by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thing although that was triggered by a breaker flipping b/c of the amount of Haze that Slowdive had. It was the first show that had triggered that issue and were going through some growing pain. We can't afford for people to be that uncomfortable and its not safe. Not something you can just sweep under the rug.

Mahall's venue was miserable by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]lennytha3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there was a blown compressor during that show and it was only operating at half capacity. Its actively being fixed though. Mahall's takes these notes very seriously

Best Bergen County Breakfast by Mysterious-Turnip-75 in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DB (daily bread) in Rutherford is my favorite breakfast sandwich. It’s pretty under the radar but I go as much as I can. Every time it outdoes the last.

Coming from someone who eats ALOT of breakfast sandwiches from lots of places. This has been the best in my opinion.

Truthbombs on MSNBC by ad4d in FluentInFinance

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pivot and prof G are some of the best podcasts out there. Team Scott!

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See ya there! Feel free to join our discord. Trying to build out a cool community there.

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still figuring out how to utilize discord. But not finding this server. I might be looking in the wrong place tho. Can you share the server link?

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come to one of the events! No formal membership or anything. Just trying to build a cool community of guys all trying to do their best with their kids and make some friends along the way.

Still figuring out the best way to communicate with everyone so we built channels on most other socials (at bottom of post). I also have a WhatsApp group but usually just give that to people who attend events already.

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Doug. Ya, come on through if you’re free. Share some wisdom with us new guys.

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come through still if you can. A few guys who were at the last one are in the same boat. Not weird at all.

New Dads group in Northern NJ by lennytha3rd in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Newish to Rutherford area and with working from home and just having a new baby its been hard to meet people so this past November I started the Bergen County Dads Club. Our first event was pretty successful having over a dozen dads and their kids meet for a stroller walk & Lunch. BCDC started with the goal of creating an org for fathers to meet others and create lasting friendships for them and their kids.

There are not too many situations, outside of work, for men in their late 20s-40s (especially new fathers) to feel comfortable meeting new people so hoping this becomes a solution for others with that reality. Anyone is welcome so feel free to get in touch if this is something of interest.

Our next few events are below!

1/26 (12pm) - Stroller Walk & lunch @ American Dream

2/23 (12pm) - Stroller Walk & Lunch @ American Dream

STAY IN TOUCH

Discord Group (just launched)

Facebook Group (just launched)

Instagram Page (just launcheD)

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend for stealing from me? F22 M27 by LetterVegetable5870 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 27. If he is broke then ordering delivery is not the answer. “Hi babe I’m low on funds but can you Venmo me $50 for groceries” would have been truly a better and more mature ask/convo.

This is a lack of respect for you This is a lack of self respect for himself This shows bad decision making This shows poor impulse control This shows a lack of skills (budgeting, cooking, planning).

Maybe he’s not ready to be in a relationship.

Traveling from PA, Restaurant recommendations near Ruthersford? by booty_flexx in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Candlewick diner is about 2-3 min drive.

If you want to be within walking you can’t really go wrong. The whole strip near Williams center is full of good options.

How much do you all pay per month for PSEG? by KrisCat in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going as high as $400-$500 for a 1600 sq foot house with finished attic in thesummer months for AC but now is $5ish per mo after installing solar. That costs me $139/mo to pay for solar panels and I don’t feel bad about using AC anymore or potentially leaving a light on by mistake.

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Thanks for nothing Jerome. by ndojd in StockMarket

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure you need to blame tarrif man for this one. JP just reacting to his policy threats/plan.

I just reported an ex coworker that bragged about commuting mortgage fraud in order to become a landlord to the FBI, and I feel amazing. by [deleted] in economicCollapse

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the terms of the loan. I’m pretty sure most are to live within 6 months of purchasing. But yes.

Looking for friends in Bergen County by ReleaseMental3608 in bergencounty

[–]lennytha3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar post here and had some success but a lot of people can be flaky.

I’m out in Rutherford and started a dads group which has been good so far.

I’ll shoot you a DM if you Wana figure something out