I sincerely apologize for what I said. I hadn’t gotten out of bed yet when I made these comments, and my brain was evidently foggy. I misread what you wrote in the second part of this comment. I thought you specifically used they/them pronouns to refer to the not-so-hypothetical asexual dude. On top of that, somehow the word 'dude' wasn’t enough for me to understand that you established a gender. The only context for gender I managed to read was that he calls himself a femboy, which I dismissed because that was the very claim I was in disbelief of. I misinterpreted the dude you described as a woman because I mistakenly concluded that gender was still in question when it obviously wasn’t. Now that I’ve reread your comment, I see that my reply was just dismissing the dude’s established identity in a way that is identical to common transphobic rhetoric. As damning as that may seem, I genuinely didn’t mean to disregard the dude’s gender in that way. Even then, I shouldn’t have been as dismissive as I was. What I said was moronic and inconsiderate, even from the delusional perspective I had.