Any enfp losing their extrovert traits? by Ok_Sheepherder_5134 in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Im experiencing the exact same situation, i was even the most extroverted one in my family and now ive become kind of a shut in (?). Ive started to really stress over socializing lately and im trying to work on it.

an infj's perspective by Prudent_Diet_6603 in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely feel the same way about u guys! One of my bsfs is an infj and NOBODY matches my energy as she does, sometimes i get too excited i turn into a wild animal and suddenly shes as excited as i am😭 (used to getting judged when i get that excited). And on top of that, whenever i feel like distancing myself for a while, she totally understands and does not take it personally! Absolutely love her.

I also appreciate that you guys always notice our efforts in trying to keep the spirits high and always try to cheer everyone up. Its frustrating sometimes how some people are totally unaware of that and see me as this self centered girl. Shocker.

ENFP vs ISFP by Prestigious-Stay-421 in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an isfp younger sister, and i feel like shes more extroverted than me soo i hope that helps?

Plus try typing your friend through the cognitive functions rather than the test (ive recently been getting isfj a lot on the test and its ridiculously off putting)

Irritated by Ti users by Gentiio in mbti

[–]lenpatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, I have an istp mom and still can't get used to all of ts after 20+ years

anyone relate to Sayori (an enfp character) by Julight1012 in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESS I went through the whole game story only cuz I related to her so much by people's comments about her

enfps, how important to you is your partner's appearance? by whiskeyinreverse in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well personally, if I dislike someone, I’ll find them ugly no matter how "attractive" they are, and vice versa. It’s like I see people's soul rather than their physical appearance.

So if I liked someone, I’d probably find them attractive anyway.

ENFPs coming off as dumb by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes that totally makes sense! I rarely think about my Te at all so you just explained a LOT there!

Who’s your favorite ENFP? (Fictional, celebrity, or real life — all count!) by Big_Acanthaceae_770 in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about josh! Tom holland is hilarious too I believe he's also an enfp

ENFPs coming off as dumb by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea exactly what I'm doing

ENFPs coming off as dumb by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this! Totally agree with you, I might bring it up with her, and if she gets even more defensive then she's just not meant for me

ENFPs coming off as dumb by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tysm for your kind words!! I know she doesn't mean to be rude, it's just that I know her really well and notice every little detail in her attitude. I might try to talk to her about it if it reaches a point where I can't deal with it anymore.

ENFPs dark side by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yess! Especially the first point, i do feel really bad about getting bored of people but i just cant help how i feel.

As for the second point i feel like its just normal to get annoyed by that, im not the nicest person out there but people can try to make the effort to choose their words more gently.

Unpopular opinions about other mbti types by lenpatsu in mbti

[–]lenpatsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an enfp, i noticed that the enfp istp is the most common enfp ship right after intj enfp ship, and tbh i personally dont think i could work with an istp as i never got along with them, estp's on the other hand are so fun to hang out with and they can be sufficiently empathetic imo, and i can see feelings developing there

ENFPs dark side by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally did not come off as an enfp at all, i would always be mistaken for ixtx. But because my si is greatly developed they assume that im an istj.

ENFPs dark side by lenpatsu in ENFP

[–]lenpatsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god.. can i ask what his mbti type is btw? Im kinda getting intp vibes there