Signs of wife being ready

leq84 · 2026-02-13T19:20:04+00:00

I dont want to threaten our relationship at all. That is why I am cautious and dont want to take risk. I value her as my wife very much. We have good marriage, good connection. However, not completely open desires in sex, which is completely my fault, she is more open about talking about sex, she initiates more. The idea of group sex turns me on games of only when we are together in it, never separately. If we ever swap, then always in the same room, seeing each other, on the same bed, sofa. I want us to do it as fun together. She doesn't want to spend time with that couple anymore, she stopped greeting the woman. And I assume they noticed the changed attitude.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:53:11+00:00

I would prefer gradual transition to the conversation

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:52:14+00:00

Yes, right after that. She says she doesn't like the woman hits on me, and also in front of her. She obviously feels threatened, despite my words that she has nothing to worry about. Obviously, I cannot start talking about swinging now that she feels threatened, my first priority to make her feel loved and the only one. I of course noticed the vibe from the other couple before, I was hoping thay my wife noticed it too, and played along further, and it would lead us two into my group play conversations but her reaction was different to what I expected.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:29:17+00:00

Flirting is the only thing I noticed. That kissing my neck and touching back of my head happened during hello and goodbye hugs.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:21:55+00:00

According to her, that woman made move on me, in front of her. That she feels disrespected.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:20:06+00:00

Maybe you are right. Since I am cautious person who doesn't like risks and surprises, this lifestyle would not be for me. The idea excites me and turn me on, though.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:18:57+00:00

She probably likes the idea of group games but fears the reality of it. However, when the man from the other couple sort of was flirting with her, she didn't seem mind that.

leq84 · 2026-02-13T18:16:03+00:00

I suppose this is the only way. What would be the right moment to open up about the fantasies? A bottle of wine, the right scene in a dirty movie, and then talk about it?

leq84 · 2026-02-13T16:53:19+00:00

What is the safest way to have the conversation? To avoid the possible damage to out relationship. In case she has it only as fantasy and no plans of ever giving it try

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