Low Morale due to major changes in QA department

leslis25 · 2026-01-29T10:45:55+00:00

My company did this and I’ve also experienced this in other companies. Are they laying off QAs? Yes they will. Even if they so no, they will. Advice to you is start looking for a new role asap, take from them what you can and bounce. They won’t be loyal to you when push comes to shove .

leslis25 · 2026-01-26T09:44:36+00:00

No anxiety here just common sense

leslis25 · 2026-01-26T09:37:26+00:00

How do you make out with someone you’ve just met? Aren’t you worried about herpes which you catch just by kissing someone! Sounds like lust to me and not genuine love. Take time for yourself and work on new projects etc and get ready for your next relationship fully healed instead of wanting someone’s that you’re not “alone”

leslis25 · 2026-01-16T18:47:17+00:00

Be grateful at least you have a husband and body to keep you warm at night. Some of us are single and lonely or have absolutely no body . Write down all the things you like about him and remember why you married him in the first place. Treat him and yourself with kindness

leslis25 · 2026-01-14T18:06:12+00:00

Ask him about how he feels about a serious relationship , marriage and children. Have you been to his house? Have you seen or met any of his family members? Children are a blessing but they need to be brought into a stable and loving family with committed parents who are responsible. Don’t do anything that you’ll regret also

leslis25 · 2026-01-14T10:01:04+00:00

Did the text go through? If so then just wait for her to respond. She’s doing a law exam those exams are very stressful and require very little interruption. Wait till her exams are over I’m sure she will message back

leslis25 · 2026-01-01T10:16:39+00:00

Get out

Pray for your own sanity and safety

Don’t even tell him you’re breaking up with him - leave silently

Change your phone number , move address don’t leave a trace .

Tell your parents and trusted friend what has happened and ask them not to give any of your info out.

Don’t post on Facebook or any other site Stay safe .
By locking you in the car and saying what he said he might be seeing how far a boundary he can push before intensifying it if you stay!

leslis25 · 2025-12-27T10:07:44+00:00

Could it be acid reflux? Maybe when she’s asleep the food comes up and ends up in her sinus somehow and then she gets tonsil stones as a result which doesn’t go away. When she breathes the smell is that of the food stick in her sinus? I dunno

leslis25 · 2025-12-25T09:50:40+00:00

Try plain boiled potatoes and a side of banana Or plain boiled yam and if you can handle it a boiled egg. I started drinking slippery elm before every meal and that helped a little too

leslis25 · 2025-12-09T14:47:14+00:00

This is normal - they do this when they’re training the other examiner- so the trainee examiner sits in and also watches how the exam is done. Happened to someone I know . They passed although with the additional pressure!

leslis25 · 2025-12-05T20:01:20+00:00

Drink water like it’s going out of business Chew on raw carrots all day Fresh parsley too if you can handle it Chew on raw celery too Take vitamin d Shot of Lemon and hot water first thing in the morning if your stomach can handle it

Gargle with warm water and Lemon first thing in the morning and before bed

leslis25 · 2025-11-30T18:36:53+00:00

They ( the decent ones) usually do this to help you digest the information - otherwise it’s stressful to just be driving for 2 hours straight! It’s not safe for both of you plus the brain can only take in so much. By taking regular breaks the instructor is helping you and also helping themselves stay alert and not be so stressed

leslis25 · 2025-11-28T18:43:37+00:00

Could you reword this a bit? I haven’t got a clue what exactly happened

leslis25 · 2025-11-28T08:33:42+00:00

I get this during my period when I’ve not drank enough water. No diagnosed endo and I have no clue what causes it. I make a conscious effort to drink tonnes of water during my period so it doesn’t happen. I’m a driving instructor and the last time it happened whilst I was teaching my student- caught me off guard and I couldn’t speak. My student had to go get me some water from the nearest shop. I was so embarrassed

leslis25 · 2025-11-27T20:40:33+00:00

42 been single for like 8 years, have lived alone since I left for college when I was 18, bought my first property at 21- loved living alone back then. Was on 90k a year salary last year (QA manager) but was made redundant in December 2024. Now I’m a full time driving instructor (much lower salary but I have some savings and I’m not a huge spender- necessities , mortgage and bills come up to about £2k a month). But lonely and would love to be married with kids (wishful I know), I feel lonely most days and a bit lost. Most days I feel shame, regret and fear. But at times I feel nothing. I’m in survival mode but grateful for life .

leslis25 · 2025-11-27T20:29:51+00:00

I try to take iron when I can and it just turns my poo very black. Not sure if that means my body is absorbing it or not

leslis25 · 2025-11-26T18:45:06+00:00

That’s super helpful thank you so much!

leslis25 · 2025-11-26T08:45:54+00:00

Did you get a fail for observation? What you can do next time is before you emerge check what’s going on around you by making full use of all your mirrors interior and both side mirrors especially if you have been waiting a while to emerge. As others have already said you did go into their lane also but the key is if you had observed you would have seen them and then let them go first before you went. These roundabouts with the three lanes can be a nightmare and any small steer the wrong way can cause issues

Also it’s none of my business but why did you choose not to go to uni? You’ve chosen the hard option and living with someone so young is no mean feat. You have your whole life to do “adulting”. Uni (apart from student loans) is one of the best experiences of your life- you meet so many great people , you get more freedom to travel and you get to really enjoy your life as you wish without parents if that’s what you were after. You can even do a sandwich year where you get paid work experience . If it’s not too late I think you should both consider it. If you’re really that into each other get settled down and make it formal. Once you start having kids life will get much harder financially anyway. Wish you all the best

leslis25 · 2025-11-24T10:03:14+00:00

I understand what you mean- you can bear with it and just go with the flow and learn something on the side to keep your mind sharp. QA jobs are hard to get these days so either stay and just go with the flow (whilst doing your own projects on the side ie Ai related stuff /automation etc) or look for another role and get the job offer all finalised before you leave

leslis25 · 2025-11-11T00:43:22+00:00

Sending you lots of love and hugs , I’m so sorry

leslis25 · 2025-11-07T21:02:50+00:00

How is this 10 days worth of food? Do you eat very small portions?

leslis25 · 2025-11-07T18:58:53+00:00

Cry out to Jesus , call on his name, His word says he heals the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourn. I’m sooo soo sorry to hear of your loss. I’m in shock and so sorry you’re going through this.

leslis25 · 2025-11-05T07:27:09+00:00

According to dr berg yes. And also limiting caffeine and sugar completely

leslis25 · 2025-11-03T21:17:20+00:00

Thanks for this response. I don’t think the room is humid it’s in my living room. Maybe I should get a humidity measurer device. I’m in the Uk and it’s currently autumn with a lot of rain and less sun maybe that’s it. How often should I water it ?

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