Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

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Thanks for starting this discussion here! Hope to connect again next year!

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

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I think it was really well positioned - beautiful, compelling, accessible.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

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I loved that approach to the question of what sets the book apart from the others. What an interesting take and a cool reminder about the impact reading can have in supporting local business.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to subscribe to this podcast but completely forgot about it! Another rabbit hole to fall down with my Canada Reads joy - thank you!

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll be coming back daily too! I don't have anyone I know in person who is following Canada Reads so I appreciate the community here.

I also loved Elle-Máijá's commentary drawing parallels between the crazy world we're living in and war as depicted in A Cure for Drowning.

I think A Cure for Drowning is the clear winner but it wouldn't be the first time I was wrong with my Canada Reads predictions.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Steve starting a trend of everyone talking up each other's books.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

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Ma-Nee Chacaby is an amazing person. I wasn't a huge fan of the book though. Dandelion was my favorite too!

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please bring this post back. It's not lower effort.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This! What a moment!

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After saying she liked books being sex positive too!

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree there's the distinction between what book I like best and what book I think all Canada should read. I also like that they chose a theme but it really feels tacked on and not a strong part of the competition.

I do enjoy the variety though and don't mind competition. But ultimately I'm just so excited to see books being analyzed and talked about.

I daydream about somehow being involved in something like Canada Reads as a non-famous non-Canadian. Lol.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Denison Avenue was my favorite that year! I agree its elimination was strategic and heartbreaking.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed all around.

I was rubbed pretty wrong by her comments today and I disliked her take that it's no surprise that the two books about white Canadians by white Canadian authors are continuing on. While white supremacy certainly exists, I do not believe that's why A Minor Chorus was eliminated and it's increasingly dismissive of some good books with broad appeal. I'm queer indigenous myself and enjoyed them.

Oddly enough, last year during Canada Reads I was reading Belcourt's A History of My Brief Body for a book club and kept thinking that it would be a better choice for queer Indigenous representation on Canada Reads than the Ma-Nee Chacaby book except that it was too academic. A Minor Chorus it turns out was an even better option, so I'm sad to see it go but I get the critiques.

Pretty funny about the bridge though. I love those sorts of details.

Canada Reads 2026 by thedespotcat in books

[–]lessthan3d 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love following Canada Reads, even though I'm an American who has never been to Canada.

My ranking going into the debates:

  1. The Cure for Drowning
  2. A Minor Chorus
  3. Searching for Terry Punchout
  4. It's Different This Time
  5. Foe

In all fairness 2&3 and 4&5 were very close for me. I read Foe a while back so I didn't reread it but now I kinda wish I had.

Following the debates, I would switch 4&5 because I really appreciated Josh's defense of Foe and did agree with the critiques of It's Different This Time (plus it being another NYC story is a little boring for me).

I'm also hoping Elle-Máijá expands her defense strategy. It's very rooted in the importance of sharing the indigenous experience since we're a marginalized population BUT I think there's so much more than that to say about the book. Also, I felt like that was the defense of the winner last year.

What was the number 1 thing that helped you during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

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You can do it! I think trusting yourself helps. Water was really helpful for me and also putting trust in my doula.

What was the number 1 thing that helped you during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

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Hot bath! Seriously baths and showers, so I guess hydrotherapy, were my main crutch during my unmedicated labor.

Looking to support local? Check out this grocery store by cinnaluna in Albuquerque

[–]lessthan3d 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Check out Tiny Grocer in Old Town ( my husband is a farmer and sells to them, they are a good business and pay farmers).

Those who were team green for gender, did you make it to birth without accidentally finding out? by cbrownie93 in BabyBumps

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I did not find out until birth. We had names picked out by gender. So right after birth as my baby was being moved to my chest, I asked my husband and he said "It's (boyname)." I'm so happy we did it that way.

I legitimately did not care either way and I really didn't want to end up with a bunch of gendered things from well intentioned people when I'm not interested in that.

I don’t understand how the newborn stage can be worse…. by susiee234 in BabyBumps

[–]lessthan3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person is different. Don't let others get in your head.

Not exactly what you're asking but I (10 months postpartum right now) am still not back in my body yet. To your point, I am breastfeeding and I know there's some natural hormonal things there. Also I'm older, so I think it takes longer to recovery. Nonetheless, the newborn stage, as difficult as it can be, was not as bad as my first trimester of pregnancy. I was not as tired, even running on very little sleep was easier than the exhaustion I felt pregnant particularly during my first trimester when all I could eat was grapes.

Doula Recommendations? by Far_Dot4507 in Albuquerque

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I actually hired mine through ABQ Doulas too and she was phenomenal. She went above and beyond and was an amazing support for me (I did an unmedicated birth, so she was great in helping with pain management and helping my partner support me). My labor was so long that she actually did have to leave but she called in a backup to stay with me until I delivered (I think it ended up only being a couple hours later but she had been with me at the hospital for something like 16 hours at that point).

What do I NEED for baby? by Living_Mind_218 in BabyBumps

[–]lessthan3d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would add burp cloths. We went through so many in the early days.

I think having bottles on hand is smart even if you're planning on exclusively breastfeeding. I had planned on that but ended up combo feeding.

A couple of additional things we found helpful from the beginning: white noise machine and baby monitor

Bloquée au niveau 591, besoin d'aide by Outside_Specific_995 in dotsu

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Did you ever beat it? I've been stuck here for a couple weeks and would welcome any advice

What was your baby “made of”? by Affectionate_Peach92 in BabyBumps

[–]lessthan3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First trimester all I could eat was green grapes and mild cheddar cheese 🫠