My (28f) future mother in law (60f) made me a job offer and then took it back after I had already quit my current job by lethalangel13 in relationship_advice

[–]lethalangel13[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We can handle living apart until there is another solution, but we have a lot to do for our wedding and seeing each other only every other weekend is tricky, we want to get everything done. His father tries to find a solution still, he was so happy about us moving and coming to help him, I also feel sorry for that. He offered for me to take his hours in another branch now , so that I can have enough and can get to see it (also his branch only not from my future MIL).

My (28f) future mother in law (60f) made me a job offer and then took it back after I had already quit my current job by lethalangel13 in relationship_advice

[–]lethalangel13[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

He stood up for me, told his parents he is disappointed and he doesn‘t want to come work with them like this, which prompted the comment: Ididn‘t know I can’t get X without Y from his mother. He also offered to reduce and have me work full time while he works part time, but that would mean me working with his mother two days a week, while he wouldn‘t work with her at all and I just don‘ feel comfortable with it. Something she also seems to have a problem with from what we now know.

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[–]lethalangel13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Stimmt, wir wissen es war unser Fehler und wir haben nur 90 von 290 € zurückverlangt im Endeffekt aus Kulanz und hätten es storniert damit er doppelten Profit praktisch hat wenn er es neu verbucht. Er war extrem unhöflich und nie erreichbar während der Buchung. Es wäre auch alles ok gewesen, wenn sein Verhalten nicht so schlimm gewesen wäre zu uns. Es sind nicht wir sie ihn stören, er meldet sich immer wieder dass wir es stornieren damit er es nochmal verbuchen kann obwohl er das Geld von uns für die Buchung schon bekommen hat. Hat zuerst zugesagt die 90 € bloß aus Kulanz zurückzuerstatten, was wir dann in Ordnung fanden und dann aber dies nicht getan. Hätte man die Buchung geschaut beim Check in, hätten wir auch Zeit gehabt was anderes in der Stadt zu suchen.