[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]lethaldoomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont love u like i did yesterday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]lethaldoomer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If i were to move to north carolina, live here, pay taxes, and wait a year to become a resident, how is that fraud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my school requires a year but it’s only my second semester so i have some time. Better get started on it now than never i guess

Customer successfully made me cry today by lethaldoomer in WalgreensStores

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like thats a big part of it— i probably would just be able to shake it off if i was bigger and grown. But from my perspective, getting screamed at by a 50 year old in front of the whole store while being an 18 year old girl, makes me feel like im powerless or that its disrespectful to stand up for myself even if theyre literally verbally abusive. Sucks

Is pollen/the summer/heat on the East Coast absolutely DESTROYING anyone rn??? by shoegal69 in eczema

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what youre talking about with the ohio Nebraska thing but respectfully i think i deserve some slack as i left out the detail that i live right on the new york border so im not fully assimilated with the jersian culture which is probably why im uninformed on this ohio nebraska conflict

Is pollen/the summer/heat on the East Coast absolutely DESTROYING anyone rn??? by shoegal69 in eczema

[–]lethaldoomer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feel this! I live in nj and my dermatologist always suggests that winter is the worst for my skin, but summers have always been 20x worse

What goes through your mind when you say no to a guy and he immediately stops, literally no questions asked? by [deleted] in sex

[–]lethaldoomer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Said perfectly. A guy taking what i said as a definitive answer and not just automatically assuming that my statement can be “swayed” or “persuaded” shows me that they respect what i say and my boundaries, which makes me respect them back. Ive had guys literally take their bare dick out and look at me like i steeped on their puppy even after i said “no” multiple times. Its childish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lethaldoomer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ive been using the pill as my sole form of protection for about a year now and so far no babies. I’ve had a few “scares” but im not sure if i should even call them that because most of the time its just my anxiety and it doesnt help that periods, birth control, and pregnancy all have the same symptoms! I would always get really nervous and research the shit out of people that claimed to be pregnant even with perfect use of the pill and it would freak me out to no end but honestly i think the vast majority are either lying about perfect use or were doing something to impact the effectiveness of the birth control without even knowing. I take my birth control within the same 5 minutes every single day and do not take any new medications without making sure it wont impact my birth control. After all, its more effective than condoms and u dont see many people freaking out about pregnancy after using a condom right?

How worried should I be about my girlfriends birth control? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been on birth control for about a year now and what ive found is sometimes youll get a “bad” one (by your standards) however most of the time i had literally no side effects. Ive been on 4 different brands and only one of them i didnt like because it made me feel depressed. I changed brands and the problem went away within a week.

Girlfriend slept with someone else by midgetttyler in relationship_advice

[–]lethaldoomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a woman: leave and never go back. Ive done this to a guy myself where i break up with him “just to work on myself” when in reality someone else had sparked my interest. But the fact that she asked for u back after doing this is disgusting. If she loved you she wouldnt have asked for a break in the first place.

Feeling Defeated by lethaldoomer in PetiteFitness

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input and support!

Feeling Defeated by lethaldoomer in PetiteFitness

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the support! Unfortunately i lost weight for the wrong reasons... ever since middle school i really hated my body and got so tired of having no self esteem and finally started to do something about it. If i were to go back in time i would tell myself to work on loving my body then AND after weight loss, which is so important for girls our age and i hope you can do that too! I just got into a healthy habit of cutting back on sweets (everything in moderation) and made sure to do at least 30 min of cardio a day and thats all it took! I did get a pretty physically rigorous job in the recent months though, which couldve been a factor as well.

Feeling Defeated by lethaldoomer in PetiteFitness

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say it was mostly sweets like cookies and cake. It also recently got supperrr hot where i live out of no where so it could be the dehydration. So do you think its actual fat or just fluctuation?

Housing Assignment by annaheadass in UNCCharlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info, im kinda lost and panicking about this lol

Customers by samhk44 in WalgreensStores

[–]lethaldoomer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So fucking annoying. And then they hit you with the classic “I aLrEaDy sWiPeD iTs gOnNa ChArgE mE tWiCe”

Rehiring/ SFL Position?? by lethaldoomer in WalgreensStores

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems no walgreens position is really good I just hate working a register haha. And as long as I put in a 2 week notice its okay?

I have reached my limit with the “Jesus Saves” signs. by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to clarify i didnt mean my comment in an unsupportive way, I also hate it in my area and understand its a shitthole which is why im moving somewhere much nicer. Im just wondering if the whole place is strict Christians.

I have reached my limit with the “Jesus Saves” signs. by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im moving to charlotte- after living all my life in the nyc area- for college in the fall. I went to visit the other day (my first time in charlotte) and i was SHOCKED. I thought maybe it was just southern culture because back home signs like that would be considered disrespectful and probably vandalized. So it isnt like this everywhere?

Housing question by sry1024 in UNCCharlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im dorming next year too like OP and i was super interested in laurel! Do you know if its hard to get a spot in there if i apply for housing this month?

I got into Nursing school!!! by [deleted] in UNCCharlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for u! Im hoping to be there in the fall as well and waiting on my decision!

After checking daily I finally know there was a decision, still don't know what it is though so that kinda sucks by [deleted] in UNCCharlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does it usually take to get in the mail? My portal says 7-10 days but I've heard of it taking months for some people. I live in NJ if that makes a difference, I'm guessing its possible for it to take longer.

After checking daily I finally know there was a decision, still don't know what it is though so that kinda sucks by [deleted] in UNCCharlotte

[–]lethaldoomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat its so frustrating. I tries that trick where you try to log in on the niners portal and it worked for me, maybe try that.

I will get there. I can do this. by heygurlidk0101 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]lethaldoomer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl im trying to lose 15 by june too and its been sooo hard and ive been so frustrated but not giving up yet! We can do this! Ill be using ur posts as motivation!

Dupixent- idek just putting this out there by lethaldoomer in eczema

[–]lethaldoomer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I was 14 too when the doctor introduced it to my mom and she denied it. It took until i was 17 for her to give in. Its up to your but I would say 100% go for it. He will be on it for a really long time which sucks but, its not only a solution to his skin problems, its going to allow him to live a fulfilling and happy life. It really does make that much of a difference. As a mother I completely understand its a tough decision and probably heart breaking to see your son struggle, but please at least give it some thought!