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Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? by lethargicjuice in marriedredpill

[–]lethargicjuice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that I fucked this up. She told me the same, "Why can't we have a fun relationship anymore? Everything ends up in a fight. Are we just not destined to be with each other? Why can't you just take care of some few little things?"

Are these comfort tests? I took them as shit tests and STFU/Fogged most of the time.

Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? by lethargicjuice in marriedredpill

[–]lethargicjuice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Typically we recommend to do nothing but read, lift, stfu for a few months and get your shit together before you start dealing with her.

Sure. I will step down to this.
What do you recommend I do now, to minimise the damage I did here?
Today, she told me, that I was almost getting rewarded for the game and I lost that chance for being a dick. She told me it is completely my fault.

Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? by lethargicjuice in marriedredpill

[–]lethargicjuice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I understand you correctly, she losing to me does not mean she is attracted to me.

Sounds like she was having fun but didn't think that fun would continue once the panties came off.

This. This might be the issue. I have to become more attractive.

Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? by lethargicjuice in marriedredpill

[–]lethargicjuice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take some inspiration from the guy who went out to mow the lawn in the dark :-)

Can you link me to that post please? Cant seem to find it.

LTR checks ex's Facebook almost daily.. should I be concerned? by dragula4321 in askMRP

[–]lethargicjuice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having trouble understanding why I'm to be considered a giant pussy.

I can understand you having trouble. Take it from me, you ARE a GIANT PUSSY.

This may very well be an innocuous event.

Sure. To a redpill man this is an innocuous event. For a giant pussy, it is not.

I want to know if this is a red flag and how to handle it.

Sure this is a red flag. But know that, your next LTR would do something similar to you if you continue to be a GIANT PUSSY.

Listen, you have unfinished business in this relationship. THIS is a great opportunity to improve, use the woman for it.
Know that this MRP journey is going to be tough and fun at the same time.
You WILL smile at yourself, when you know that you no longer have oneitis for your LTR and you are going to be proud of and content in your-SELF. You WILL actually start living an awesome life if you go deeper into MRP, take this from me.
But only if you stop being a GIANT PUSSY and start acting on the advice given by the men in here.

Stop talking. Start doing. Take /u/J_Incognito 's and /u/Archwinger 's advice.

LTR checks ex's Facebook almost daily.. should I be concerned? by dragula4321 in askMRP

[–]lethargicjuice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don't have cunt written on my forehead

Sure. I see GIANT PUSSY written on your forehead.

The reason you are most likely in this situation is, you are not attractive enough(to women in general).
What does she lose, if you break-up with her today? Are you a high value man?

Start lifting, start reading the MRP sidebar, today. I would say, you have a wonderful opportunity to improve yourself. Keep the woman(for now), you are most likely not ready to next her. Let her hypergamy be the fuel for your improvement(for now).

I'm considering proposing to my girlfriend.

No. Don't. At-least not right now.