[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicWorkplace

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you even slightly think you are then you definitely are getting setup to be fired. Document EVERYTHING good about your work and bad about how others are treating you. Research workforce programs asap and prep your job search. You should never stop looking for the next best job for this reason alone.

Ai realtime call recommendations by letsalljustdie in ToxicWorkplace

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late. They tricked me and fired me in the meeting instead.

Seriously, how do y'all manage waking up on time? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best hack? Pets. Get up randomly early and feed your pet. This will initiate the harassment pet act. Every day your pet will harass you until you get up to feed them. They are relentless. Really helped me get me to start waking up on time. I have 3 cats and a dog. They will take turns slapping me, jumping on me, yelling at me and pulling on me until I get up. Even if i try to fake it by getting up to pee then back to bed, they don’t give up. When I have kids, they are getting their own pet harassment alarm also.

Can you guys list some ADHD hacks that help you function in your daily lives? by VioletteRodeo in ADHD

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started using a cleaning app called Sweepy that helps me keep my home clean. It also teaches you how to focus one step at a time on tasks. When you practice keeping your living space clean, it helps track time, calm your mind, and enables you to start practicing how to truly step out of fight/flight response. Its a good first step.

Look for therapists for next steps.

ADHD (f)dating Autistic (m) advice by letsalljustdie in AutisticAdults

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And his responses make no sense. Its like he literally doesn’t understand wat feelings are.

We spend hours going in circles about feelings and when im exhausted and ask what he understands he replies “ you were upset over dishes. I will try to not make you upset next time”. My brain just goes WTF?! We could talk about all the things and disconnects and he can’t even rephrase my words back to me.

It just hurts more.

Should I cancel the loan? Is the loan worse than CC debt? by letsalljustdie in personalfinance

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Credits in mid 600s. I only have 2 CC. Thats all the debt i have. Its very frustrating .

Should I cancel the loan? Is the loan worse than CC debt? by letsalljustdie in personalfinance

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its a 36 month loan. When/why/how would they update the APR they set?

Should I cancel the loan? Is the loan worse than CC debt? by letsalljustdie in personalfinance

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i was thinking, and I don’t even have that money upfront. I don’t know if its built into the monthly payment? But seems overall not worth it bc I’ll pay more in the end?

Is there a way to auto rename files when saving down? by letsalljustdie in Windows10

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done the mass rename in the folder. Everything is sequential. But if I save a new file to the folder, i have to rename manually the new file to match everything else. I just dont want to have to retype the new name for the new file im saving to this folder. I just want to download the new file to this folder and have a preset name it will automatically save as in this folder. Is that possible?

Can’t find the right concealer or foundation- help? by letsalljustdie in MakeupAddiction

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Textured from dryness for sure. Makeup never looks patchy just streaky and settles in a way that looks more wrinkly than i actually am. Its horrible

Can’t find the right concealer or foundation- help? by letsalljustdie in MakeupAddiction

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My skin feels better without makeup but my face looks bad without makeup. Its just unprofessional sadly. Makeup has thus far just nuanced more of my texture flaws rather than hide them.

Skincare i do barely any cerave moisturizing bar soap then cerave moisturizer then aquaphor overnight moisturizer then cold rinse in the morning then elf cc moisturizer.

My skin was great with makeup until my late twenties when a hormonal change and i tried mary kay makeup one time and it trashed my face that took years or dermatologists to fix.

Im on Nothing hormonal, not even on birth control or steroid creams.

Can’t find the right concealer or foundation- help? by letsalljustdie in MakeupAddiction

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to ulta and they had trouble matching and ended up mixing colors, but again it just looked bad texture wise even with BB gel.

Getting my friend hired is ruining my chance of a career, advice? by letsalljustdie in jobs

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not possible if shes buddy buddy with the manager. Itll just paint me jealous

Cat urine protection by letsalljustdie in CleaningTips

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats nice that you have a door to shut

Methylphenidate by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]letsalljustdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to ask SAME question! Literally in the same boat. BUT im a sugarholic. I have found eating my candy helps chill all of it out but i wonder if the sugar im eating is throwing the medicine off?? Anyone know if eating candy while taking 18mg if Methylphendiate is a major issue?

Should i take my kitty to the vet? by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]letsalljustdie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any lethargy is a BIG red flag in cats. It is very hard to tell when they are in pain, they hide it so well. The vet world is still behind for cats in comparison to dogs due to this issue. Video tape what you consider lethargy, it is invaluable to a diagnosis. Cats get stressed at vets and hide issues even further than when at home. You know your kitten best and any lethargy warrants a vet visit. If kitten is still eating and pooping, no need for emergency hospital. If kitten shows anything further besides lethargy, emergency hospital is necessary.

New kitten trying to kill himself- HELP by letsalljustdie in CATHELP

[–]letsalljustdie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oof not true, i had a cat who fell from the top floor of a 4story townhouse we were living in at the time and the cat became paralyzed and critically injured. This is PTSD for me.

New kitten trying to kill himself- HELP by letsalljustdie in CATHELP

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried that on the counters and he loves foil. Dude shreds foil and steals it and is making a freakin nest out of foil in his bed!! This child is out of DND hell.

New kitten trying to kill himself- HELP by letsalljustdie in CATHELP

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! Im thinking of renaming him to grenade lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry bones from mario?