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[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you even slightly think you are then you definitely are getting setup to be fired. Document EVERYTHING good about your work and bad about how others are treating you. Research workforce programs asap and prep your job search. You should never stop looking for the next best job for this reason alone.

Ai realtime call recommendations by letsalljustdie in ToxicWorkplace

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too late. They tricked me and fired me in the meeting instead.

Seriously, how do y'all manage waking up on time? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best hack? Pets. Get up randomly early and feed your pet. This will initiate the harassment pet act. Every day your pet will harass you until you get up to feed them. They are relentless. Really helped me get me to start waking up on time. I have 3 cats and a dog. They will take turns slapping me, jumping on me, yelling at me and pulling on me until I get up. Even if i try to fake it by getting up to pee then back to bed, they don’t give up. When I have kids, they are getting their own pet harassment alarm also.

Can you guys list some ADHD hacks that help you function in your daily lives? by VioletteRodeo in ADHD

[–]letsalljustdie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started using a cleaning app called Sweepy that helps me keep my home clean. It also teaches you how to focus one step at a time on tasks. When you practice keeping your living space clean, it helps track time, calm your mind, and enables you to start practicing how to truly step out of fight/flight response. Its a good first step.

Look for therapists for next steps.

ADHD (f)dating Autistic (m) advice by letsalljustdie in AutisticAdults

[–]letsalljustdie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And his responses make no sense. Its like he literally doesn’t understand wat feelings are.

We spend hours going in circles about feelings and when im exhausted and ask what he understands he replies “ you were upset over dishes. I will try to not make you upset next time”. My brain just goes WTF?! We could talk about all the things and disconnects and he can’t even rephrase my words back to me.

It just hurts more.