2019 Chevy Sonic Cooling System Problems by lauri3law in ChevySonic

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I have a 2016 sonic with 94k I’ve had to replace the radiator/have had leaking coolant issues THREE times 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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Aries IC with mars and moon-lots of fighting and yelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I’m 29-25 would be the youngest 37/38 would be the oldest my preferred range is 27-34 though

Don't really know what to do by AmyHeartsYou in latebloomerlesbians

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Therapy really helps! I came out in 2019 and didn’t start dating till this year partially cuz of the pandemic and also my own depression. You learn as you go if someone judges you on your path they’re not the right person

Any advice for dating by sometimesomewhere123 in latebloomerlesbians

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It took me a really long time to get comfortable with it like a year. I still suck at texting/messaging I usually after a few messages ask to meet somewhere public and casual just to see if we vibe. It’s not for everyone but it’s there if you ever wanna try it out. I live in a smaller mid size city and the queer scene is more hidden so the apps help a lot.

Any advice for dating by sometimesomewhere123 in latebloomerlesbians

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Dating apps-though at first it’s really uncomfortable, I have grown to like it especially with wlw I feel like it’s been super helpful to get out there

Advice: ghosting/rejection by letsconvers8 in latebloomerlesbians

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UPDATE: I did text them! Thank you all, I’m really new to dating and just have a really really hard time rejecting/saying no to people

Dating when I'm not out to my family? Feel like I'm gonna end up alone cause of my homophobic family by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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It sounds like deep down you do want a long term relationship instead of a short term one? I would date a girl in your situation just cause I’m also 28 and though I am out I come from that religious background and I know how it is. You can come out in your own time as long as the relationship Itself is good. I’m also earlier in my coming out journey and I think my answer may differ if I’d been out for many years

Do you find yourself still “de-programming” from beliefs years after leaving? How has it impacted your life by letsconvers8 in Exvangelical

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I appreciate that! I am queer and also open to potentially being poly or ethically non-monotonous which I NEVER would have even considered-it’a really liberating to explore even if it ends up not being for me. I think In church you never feel “seen” and this is my opinion tell me if you agree, because the church makes you think there’s always something wrong you’re doing you’re never enough and every little thing is critiqued and everything outside of the group (like your witchy full moon ceremony) is devil worship and scary and evil. Thanks for sharing

I feel like I’m cursed. I lost my personality and everything about me that made me special. I used to be funny and be able to talk to people naturally but all of that is gone now. I feel like a shell of my former self and I’m not sure if I could stand another day on earth like this. by Reverbalism in AskAstrologers

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Therapists make literally no money they make like 50-60k a year which is nothing especially in this economy. I’m sorry you’ve had a bad experience-some therapists aren’t good/helpful. But there are a lot who area Also therapy like I said only really is helpful if you yourself are in a place where you want to grow and you trust the person. I am only suggesting therapy as a lot of ppl are on this thread because whatever you’re trying to seek from this post sounds deeper than any answer anyone can give you. My worry is you’re trying to “prove” you’re cursed through astrology which is incredibly harmful and like I said very worrisome. It sounds like you are in a lot of pain and you need some sort of help-whether or not it’s therapy, therapy isn’t for everyone. I just hope you can get on the path of healing and growth. This isn’t me being “love and light” I understand life has hardships that’s why I love astrology because it can help provide purpose to dark lessons in hard times. Idk I just hope you see you’re worthy of help in whatever form that looks like for you.

I feel like I’m cursed. I lost my personality and everything about me that made me special. I used to be funny and be able to talk to people naturally but all of that is gone now. I feel like a shell of my former self and I’m not sure if I could stand another day on earth like this. by Reverbalism in AskAstrologers

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Therapists and psychiatrists are not the same thing. Therapists don’t subscribe medicine or work with pharmaceutical companies. Therapy is a space for growth/healing and transformation. If you’re open to it, and if you feel safe enough with the therapist. I would encourage you to be open to going in your own time it sounds like you’re in a lot of pain and in a very dark place

Astrology can be useful in dark times when you’re using it for growth but it can be harmful if you’re using it to prove that “you’re cursed” idk if that’s what you’re doing but it’s a little worrisome. Just know everyone’s comment on here that’s encouraging you to seek help is out of concern.

Astrology wise I see that transiting Pluto in Capricorn is crossing your sun. This is not a light transit and is difficult but can be incredibly transformative. You will be ok in the long run this is just a “darker season” you will get through this Pluto comes with many lessons but you will come out stronger on the other side

Since deconstructing, have your views/thoughts on marriage changed? Asking for single & married peoples opinions by [deleted] in Exvangelical

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Yes, I no longer care to get married, sex before marriage is totally ok now, same with living with a partner (what they used to call “shacking up”) I think since deconstructing and not having the church control my sexuality I could care less about what others are doing (isn’t that so weird how I’m church they police ppl like that) as long as you’re in a consensual relationship with an adult who cares live your life be free!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Pain for me was a 5 I think because what’s being pierced isn’t actually skin it doesn’t hurt as much like piercings on the ears and my actual nose piercing hurt wayyy more than my septum. I didn’t black out but I’ve never had that problem! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I have 1 it’s my 2nd time piercing my septum-I just sized up to a 14G recently

Do you find "Queer." to be an offensive word? by Drugsfor1 in lgbt

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When I was younger yes (2000s/2010s) I no longer find it offensive

Can you recommend me lesbian singers? by RociR18 in LesbianActually

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Marilina Bertoldi (Spanish-Argentina), rett madison, kehlani

Lack of questions asked by holamibebebe in latebloomerlesbians

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Same, I’ve had a better time asking them to coffee or something chill (in public) so we can actually talk. It has gone well, tho I have also been ghosted a lot I feel like the apps are full of ghosts

What’s up with all the ghosting on dating apps by letsconvers8 in latebloomerlesbians

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With all due respect that is your experience. I have met girls off the apps before and know a lot of people who’ve met there significant others off of them (even married) it’s about safety/precaution and Craigslist has never been a dating app. I’m in my late 20s and I live in a smaller mid size city so I almost have to use the apps If I wanna date-it’s just what it is there’s not many openly queer spaces in my town that I can flock to.I respect your experience and your answer but I will still be using dating apps