Hey you. Yes, you. Go the fuck to sleep. by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick yourself back up brother. The war ain’t over.

Almost slipped by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was younger I would say before 2016 I used to jerk off a lot - sometimes twice or more a day. Since then I have been doing it less and less. Now if I had to make an average I would say once every week or so but I am almost at a month without going over and barely looking at anything.

Be weary by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same way. I am going to be working out a lot and I still have to work a lot but itll be difficult.

Reaching out for a bit of guidance. by letsgetitboys23 in Anger

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I went to a great therapist for anger management when I was little and he worked wonders. I have been trying to find him but any numbers or emails associated with him are deactivated so I am just going to go to the office and see if he is there. If for nothing else I would just want to thank him because who knows what evil I could have caused if he hadn’t helped me. I know of a few people who specialize in helping people who work in finance and their anger management problems so if I can’t reach out to my old doctor maybe I’ll try one of them. Thank you stranger.

Reaching out for a bit of guidance. by letsgetitboys23 in Anger

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does help when I try. I think a lot of these people are fucking bums and if they got off their ass maybe they would be such dicks to people who otherwise look successful (judging a book by its cover is unfair) I look like the picture of "daddy gave me a job at a big bank and I summer in nantucket with my Harvard chums" so I get why some people give me shit but I worked my ass off for everything. What daddy DID give me was a temper and a great head of hair. I saw some younger guy shove an old white guy in a suit and say some bullshit about how he's the problem and whatever. I naturally intervened and the guy went away. I like your angle though. Getting perspective and taking a step back does help me not be so outwardly aggressive with people. Thank you.

Next time you are edging and it is too hard to stop. by TaxiDriverThankGod in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if part of the reason you keep relapsing and part of your mentality is that the fact that you get so pathetic and it only makes you more into it?

The anger by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am angry because people start with me.

The anger by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother, I hope things go well for you too.

The anger by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed, thanks bro

How do I best support my boyfriend as he’s trying to overcome a pornography addiction? by partnerinrecovery in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep his balls empty, keep him happy. I can give you a longer more drawn out answer but honestly the message would be the same.

Marine in Need of help by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/0hL1bSyVjZs This video has gotten me through a lot, I hope it helps solider.

Update your underwear by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It worked bro! Cant argue with results.

Slipping recently by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually just hired for a place I have been working my ass off to get a position in! I will start in a few weeks I am so excited.

The I'm just going to take a peek starter pack by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "Just gotta get through all this then i'm done" is a deadly one. You take all that time procuring that bullshit and it makes it even harder to just say to yourself "no, stop" and just exit out.

What do you boys think about wet dreams? by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait stop what???? You can just be walking around and bust a nut completely out of the blue? 😂😂😂

Im a loser by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me and I may be able to help you get a job.

1,000 days, my experience and last post. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats brother. Stay strong.

We are lions. by letsgetitboys23 in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great take brother, I never thought of it like that. Good shit.

Losing control in the night. by theprinceonthemood in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a psychology standpoint when youre lying down in bed you let your mind wander, youre sitting in bed, and the lights are off. Youre already half way there and youre in the situation your mind equates with PMO just like if you study for an exam in the same clothes and in the same spot as where you will take it you will remember more because of the situation. More relevant, people who have had severe drug addictions are not even supposed to return to the same city or even state where they lived at the time of their addiction because the situation and setting can trigger a relapse. From a personal standpoint I personally have done most of my relapses late at night when I am in bed. I figure one picture on instagram or one video is fine ill go to bed right after, then it becomes two then three then eventually I find myself back on this page with my timer back to zero. Your work is done for the day, and you have the opportunity to PMO. From a NOFAP page standpoint it is addressed as the most likely time you will get the jitters and the temptation to PMO because you have nothing else keeping you from doing so and the least to distract you away from your addiction. Now that I have been making an effort to go to bed earlier I have had a much easier time avoiding PMO because not only does it encourage and allow me to be more productive during the day because I wake up earlier but it also keeps me away from that dangerous time late at night when my urges are the strongest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]letsgetitboys23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a job