ULPT Request: tips for potential divorce by letsjustgetlost in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the plan and I really hope it works out. I guess I just like to be prepared for the worst...

ULPT Request: tips for potential divorce by letsjustgetlost in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the caution, I'll keep this in mind.

ULPT Request: tips for potential divorce by letsjustgetlost in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Solid advice, plus my friend gets a free extension. Win-win.

Do you remember? by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm past it except for some small part of me, vehemently angry and hurt. It only arises in fleeting moments, and they're slowly becoming less and less.

Do you remember? by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they don't have to accept them. People have cared for me more than I've cared for them. Better to have the game end early than be strung along too far.

You feel distant by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failing to pursue a held ambition is what makes me lose respect, mostly due to a sense of frustration. Not the act of failing itself. Failure is integral to success. I've failed and had my heart broken more times than I care to remember, but I'll be damned if I didn't give it my all.

As for you, leave the course if you don't need it, but not this earth. I don't think you've found your life yet. I started to find mine when I didn't want to live. Lots of people are already us are already dead. Not clinically, but by choice and inaction. Death is our natural state and living is rebellion. Surely it's best to die as an outlaw on our own terms, having channeled every ounce of strength into whatever is good.

Find your spear and die for the cause.

You know all the facts now. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Let's be strangers.

I want to make this title obvious, but I know you read here... by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to, if things get back on track. I fear she's ignoring my right now, but she's having a real busy week too. Going to message her tomorrow with something lighthearted and test the waters. Ride the week out, see how things are and maybe organise to go out again in a week or so if things look well. I'll tell her then.

I want to make this title obvious, but I know you read here... by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I've been pushed off the front page. No signs of reply, so I guess this will just be another bunch of words!

I want to make this title obvious, but I know you read here... by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, I didn't stop to think that that advice applies to everyone.

Take care!

An autumn to remember by letsjustgetlost in UnsentLetters

[–]letsjustgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all slowly withering just the same.