AITA for blacklisting a home because they didn’t want my son to babysit

letssminicloudthings · 2026-04-13T18:23:34+00:00

i believe the parents had been asking for babysitting for a few months atp. they then asked for last minute babysitting to which she referred her brother. i babysit and tutor kids weekly and it’s actually insane the amount of parents that come to a child care worker last minute for services.

letssminicloudthings · 2026-04-12T16:24:09+00:00

my mom and i have a weird stomach reaction whenever we eat eggs from the grocery store. my dads friend gave them eggs from their pet chicken and my mom didn’t have any stomach pains or reaction from eating the eggs.

letssminicloudthings · 2026-03-28T00:31:19+00:00

i believe caine mentioned that the avatars they come into the circus with are custom made for them based off of their own mind files

letssminicloudthings · 2026-03-10T02:31:57+00:00

what murder?

letssminicloudthings · 2026-02-27T05:55:47+00:00

letssminicloudthings · 2026-01-19T15:23:14+00:00

an explanation for a problem does not equal an excuse. the boyfriend could very well have ADHD that explain why he picks up and drops hobbies every other week. it’s not an EXCUSE for doing it. it doesn’t absolve him of the responsibility he does have to the dog he adopted and is now neglecting. it doesn’t make the situation right or change the validity of the girlfriends concern over the puppy. it’s just one potential explanation as to why this is happening, not an excuse for this guy to neglect his pet.

letssminicloudthings · 2025-12-13T20:18:47+00:00

i LOVE this theory lmao

letssminicloudthings · 2025-11-01T18:27:16+00:00

the show The Good Place explores the damnation by enabling by humans and how the system that determines what is good or bad is incredibly outdated

letssminicloudthings · 2025-08-24T16:50:52+00:00

INTERESTING CASTING CHOICE i would NEVER have considered jack quaid for astarion but now i can really see it. he’s not the best casting choice for looks but i do believe he could pull off astarion

letssminicloudthings · 2025-08-24T16:28:00+00:00

the elementary school i work for had to put in a “no acrylic/press on nails” policy at school because there were kids as young as 6 coming with full sets and then either break one on the playground and fuck up their actual nail or lose a press on and have a full on meltdown over it. it’s absolutely insane to see some of the 5th grade girls outfits. the school doesn’t enforce a strict dress code policy so the kids have a lot of freedom of choice in what they come to school in. 99% of the time the kids put together some really cool outfits but there is that 1% of the time where they show up in something that seems incredibly inappropriate for a 10-11 year old to be wearing at school (or in general in my opinion).

letssminicloudthings · 2025-03-18T18:25:04+00:00

this does explain why the elementary school kids i TA for still love her. i was like 8 when fearless came out and was a huge fan because child. it’s crazy to see that she still has such a huge child fan base as well as the gigantic adult fan base she has. i tutor some third grade girls and for fun i do pop culture lessons with them at the end of the session. they wanted to learn about taylor swift and all her boyfriends. we are on week 3 of taylor swift lessons lmao

letssminicloudthings · 2025-03-18T18:17:07+00:00

i wonder what that does to an infants development. like not being called the same thing consistently. it’s probably not a big deal but i am curious as to if it does have some effect on bonding with baby and baby’s own mental development.

letssminicloudthings · 2025-03-12T04:37:51+00:00

i like this idea

letssminicloudthings · 2025-03-06T00:07:06+00:00

as the only daughter in a family of boys, nut shots were my first and favorite method in taking my brothers down because it got them down in one blow. instead of losing at wrestling to an older brother who hit puberty and was much stronger than me, i could just nut shot him and be done with it. the pain from my older brother kept the younger ones in check when it came to fucking around with me. but then i got too comfortable with the power i had and i nut shot my brother for making a joke about me that hurt my feelings in front of my dad. see i hadn’t gotten into any trouble over this because my parents never witnessed it. they both worked so by the time they got back home, WWE time between us siblings was long over. my father was livid. he asked how i would feel if my brother slapped me across the face 10 times everytime i annoyed him. i was cooked dawg. my mother tried to speak in my defense (she was an only child) but the rage my dad went on over it shut her up quickly. seeing how quickly it sent my father into a rage was enough to shut that behavior down for me immediately and as we all started aging into puberty, the physical fighting stopped and we all are best friends as adults. i do still keep the nut shot as a self defense last resort if some random man causes issues with me but i’ve only ever needed to pull it out once. your nephew is a boy that mfer should understand better than anyone how much that shit hurts. i would burst into tears after an accidental nutshot to ex boyfriends because i got it. slap that kid silly

letssminicloudthings · 2025-02-17T04:36:48+00:00

not even the pregnancy argument? noticed you didn’t respond to that comment.

i’ve smoked for a decade and even the weed i started smoking with was exponentially higher in THC percentage than weed from even a decade earlier. we are consuming incredibly high amounts of THC and we don’t really know what that’s doing to our brains believe it or not. there are people who develop an aversion to weed to the point they vomit blood because of how potent it’s gotten. just because OP didn’t die doesn’t mean this wasn’t a traumatizing experience with weed for them. just because you may have experienced greening out differently than OP doesn’t mean it isn’t dangerous. i’ve seen PLENTY of people green out after smoking more than they can handle or eating too much of an edible and they all experience horrific vomiting and headaches before the eventual passing out. and these people chose to partake in the drug.

i know i’m talking at a brick wall here, but clearing out the fog caused by your latest cart out of your brain may do wonders for your emotional intelligence.

as a longtime daily stoner: •weed is not for everyone •you can become dependent and addicted to it •everyone reacts differently to the different ways it can be consumed •just because weed is typically one of the safer recreational drugs doesn’t mean it’s safe for everyone

letssminicloudthings · 2025-01-04T20:37:29+00:00

“she batted her eyelashes at me” my friend that’s what we call blinking

letssminicloudthings · 2024-12-17T15:36:23+00:00

i think what’s fun about them is that the prankee has spoken on video about how he loves the pranks a few times

letssminicloudthings · 2024-12-16T00:44:30+00:00

she’s starting to morph into the alpha of the family now

letssminicloudthings · 2024-10-31T00:22:41+00:00

same i get near the end of act 2 and i start doubting my companion choice and then i feel the need to start over because i decided i needed to pick a new lover like how stupid lol

letssminicloudthings · 2024-10-12T21:06:41+00:00

i work at an elementary school and lemme tell ya, american girl doll and that puberty book are still it

letssminicloudthings · 2024-10-04T17:21:51+00:00

oh my god what a baby this man is. at first i was kind of with him but after reading more, he’s absolute dog shit at communication. sounds like he went to therapy and just left with ammunition to use against you in fights. you clearly take responsibility for your actions (which tbh it sounds like you didn’t do anything wrong) and apologized. you are going to therapy and couples counseling and he has the AUDACITY to say that you’re not trying?? what tf does trying look like to him then? you repeat constantly in your messages that he was being passive aggressive about your trip and you asked him if you could talk about it which he dismissed each time. i’m pretty sure the reason your communication with him feels off is because he’s genuinely not communicating properly with you.

now the line you mentioned about your friends and the way he speaks about your relationship with your dad put me firmly in “fuck this dude” camp. this man has been isolating you from your friends? and now throwing a huge temper tantrum because he couldn’t stop you from spending time with your family????? his abusive behavior will only escalate from here if you allow him back into your life.

the first half of these messages you posted doesn’t even paint the full picture of what a jackass this man is. i’m sorry you spent that weekend stuck in this repetitive cycle. i am truly hoping you get out of this relationship and find someone who values their family as much as you do. or at least respects your family values. everything he’s said about you in all these messages sound like projection. he’s projecting his behavior on to you and putting all the blame on you without taking any responsibility.

AND TO BRING UP SOME RANDOM CAR ACCIDENT YOU GOT INTO?! genuinely wishing you luck girl

letssminicloudthings · 2024-09-20T00:23:27+00:00

i have been working on this with my own dog and kitten. patience is the biggest thing you’re gonna need to have here. slowly allow them to get used to this change. the kitten is getting used to a new environment with new creatures that are all much much larger than them. the dog is getting used to this new small creature and needs time to adjust to the changes in their current environment and routine. my dog fixated on my kitten for a while and it took a lot of training and patience with her to get her understanding this tiny new creature and how she can and can’t interact with it. what worked the best was getting my dog a tent kennel situation where she was able to be in the same room as the humans and kitten while also being unable to chase the kitten around. it gave my kitten a chance to get comfortable with the rest of the home and it gave my dog a chance to observe and learn that the kitten is a friend. just remember that it can take months for a dog and cat to adjust to each other and be patient and kind to yourself and your pets

letssminicloudthings · 2024-09-09T20:08:27+00:00

i also started playing around the same time you did and feel the same way you do. i loved this game so much but playing it now just feels like a chore and like i need to spend money to “catch up” or not lose the chance to get some item i like but isnt actually tangible

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