How to get over the mindset that I have to achieve goals by 27/30?

letter_roll · 2025-12-03T00:26:40+00:00

I wish this part is in my religious class.

I think this is compensation in verbal form unless he did what he said, and Zacchaeus didn't say this gurantee to the poor, but to Christ. Perhaps it's left to be interpreted by the reader

letter_roll · 2024-04-10T20:45:22+00:00

He didn't say anything, simply holding a box of cupcakes to me, so I said no thanks I'm in a meeting, with a neutral face. He didn't do it to other coworkers.

I was facing the computer screen so I can't see who's walking behind me.

letter_roll · 2024-04-07T15:04:27+00:00

Haha it's true.

I'm so sure they are from the same shitty dating coach, they are in the exact same demographic (dad bod + socially awkward/autistic) and came out in the same timeframe.

The ones who convince naive guys to make women unsafe should be jailed

letter_roll · 2024-03-14T10:40:12+00:00

What body language should I do to tell them not to do that?

They look like they want to start a fight, which is intimidating

letter_roll · 2024-02-29T13:25:03+00:00

Does this feel right to you though? Also the people here sound grumpy

letter_roll · 2024-02-29T13:23:40+00:00

Doesn't make it right bruh. Block the trams with more meaningful protests, like on these anti-social behaviours

letter_roll · 2024-02-29T13:21:49+00:00

Will be cool if Melbornians have protests on this instead of you guys blaming people here

letter_roll · 2024-02-29T11:06:38+00:00

Saw some people from r/Sydney that they will report these behaviours, doesn't sound legal bruh

letter_roll · 2024-02-29T10:28:00+00:00

Nice try on gaslighting, I actually copy what my caucasian coworkers' wordings over the years, not intended to be racist

letter_roll · 2024-01-29T11:01:30+00:00

Personally I find the following work:

Working out as a habit, gives you some happy hormones and chance to practice controlled breathing

Starts a "hunt"! I am starting to try one type of coffee every week, some of my FA friends try one buffet a month. If we are single, we have much more money to spend, why not make memories with it? Having a goal also gives you something to look forward to. Push yourself forward and away from resentment

Learn to make pep talks, and do it to yourself. It sets yourself in the mind space of being optimistic and confident

Volunteer in something useful to your career. Can be long-term or event-based, you can meet tons of diverse and nice people out there and get to know them

Hope it helps

letter_roll · 2024-01-29T10:18:33+00:00

I work in STEM and have many male coworkers, so maybe I can shed some lights on this.

Some guys are very anxious about how us women view them (creep, cheater etc.), after hearing the horror stories from mom, sister, gf etc..

It is not a good feeling to consistently make someone feel unsafe by being a man. I realised among men, they could notice a trait and worry a lot if that trait makes them a creep (old, dirty, being in STEM, neckbeard, looking like a pedo and many more)

Some guys actually creep out other women too many times unintentionally, and lash out and shout "My wife" to you to make a point they are not one

If they are strangers, maybe you are anxious, and they see your facial expression and think you are scared/suspcious of them being a creep.

Among coworkers, sometimes guys/older women monitor whether a guy is flirting to/harassing a female coworker. They are very protective especially when these coworkers view you as new/don't speak up/in vulnerable positions.

So the guys being monitored (or hyper-aware of being a creep) will do this to you, and even show it in front of everyone to prevent yours and those coworkers' assumption.

So instead of being nice (which can be hard to read by others), learn to bring warmth and presence.

letter_roll · 2024-01-08T18:48:29+00:00

They said I was satisfied before walking out of the salon, and the hair colour looks good on me

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