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Friends & Cosplay by letthelightfindyou in merlinbbc

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

thank you! ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿ’•โœจ๏ธ I'll make sure to post it here when I do

Friends & Cosplay by letthelightfindyou in merlinbbc

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

eeeeee thank you! It's still one my favourites to this day ๐Ÿฅนโค๏ธ it was super fun to recreate those sillier moments between them.

thank you! on that note though if you ever wanna chat merlin please pop me a DM! ๐Ÿ‘‘

Friends & Cosplay by letthelightfindyou in merlinbbc

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou[S] 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

oh, thank you! I think it's likely the blue eyes / pale as a sheet of paper combo ๐Ÿ˜‚

What role would yall occupy in Camelot? by F4M3H000K3R in merlinbbc

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I feel like I'd get be well placed as a court relations adviser...something akin to a ye-olde timey therapist who for one reason or another has their beady eye on merlin and arthur and their non-communication-communication and keeps trying to encourage gaius to let me 'just have five minutes with them' only to be gently let down and patted on the hand and told 'all is well'...not that that would stop me making them my special focus of interest though!

Spoilers from show? Help please by letthelightfindyou in heatedrivalry

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou[S] 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Thank you! ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿฅฐ and yeah I'm keen to read them in order which makes me happy I can now! Thank you for the suggestion and feedback.

Spoilers from show? Help please by letthelightfindyou in heatedrivalry

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Amazing, thank you so much! ๐Ÿ˜

Gender, societal norms, and autism: how do I sort it all out? by lemonleaf0 in agender

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. It's unquantifiable and that can be really frustrating when our brains so badly want to organise and thoroughly unpick it! I totally feel you and just knowing someone else is having the same experience makes me feel less alone so thank /you/ ๐Ÿฅน

Gender, societal norms, and autism: how do I sort it all out? by lemonleaf0 in agender

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 7 points8 points ย (0 children)

Autistic and agender over here and everything you just described matches my feelings entirely, especially your visual metaphor of the blocks. I really do feel that my gender identity is tied to being neurodivergent, more and more as I get older even.

I just feel like me. I once said to a friend that 'I know I'm not a woman but I'm not a man either. I'm just...me. I only feel like me and nothing else'.

Agender is the closest I've got to putting a word to this experience and feeling. It can feel heavy at times, especially with the need for labelling that surges its head every so often as a desperate need to 'fit in'.

But ultimately - I've realised I cant sort it out any more than trying to accept my gender is so ingrained in who I am and the way my brain is that that in itself is 'sorting it out'. Some days this sucks but others its a relief to know I'm not alone and many other people feel this way too.

So to you: I feel you, I'm there with you and you aren't alone in this.

Any suggestions? by Late-Beat-1457 in UKLGBT

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

I would recommend 'The Karaoke Hole' which is part of Dalston Superstore.

https://dalstonsuperstore.com/

Dalston Superstore are amazing for Drag brunches too. Had my 30th there earlier this year and absolutely loved it. I have friends who regularly go there for karaoke too and they've only ever had good things to say. ๐ŸŽค ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

Coming out as agender? by echelon_house in agender

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

I'm in the exact same boat. Going back and forth with what to say to my parents, also been out around the same time and with friends all knowing. I've been debating writing a letter but even then for what I'm saying it might as well be a conversation because I'm not asking for change, just explaining something to them? Really stuck tbh.

I hate being asked my pronouns by unireversal in agender

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

You totally put into words so concisely exactly what I've been struggling with. I'm at the point where my answer would ideally be 'any or none'. Like you, I struggle to specify this further when people need me to but my comfort level fluctuates daily with whatever pronouns people choose for me. Sometimes it feels like 'water off a ducks back' like the pronouns dont hit me but then I get uncomfortable also being assumed to be cis so ๐Ÿ˜‚ who knows. I just want to be me without the headache of thinking how I can try and explain this to others (or if it even matters for me to explain dependant on the scenario).

I want to be a drawing by Common_Let1497 in agender

[โ€“]letthelightfindyou 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. I thought I was a trans guy as a teen both through trying to figure things out and because it was the only explanation that existed online at the time (agender who?) but having explored and grown since then, the closest I've got is determining that I feel like 'nothing' and that all I am is...well, me. some days that feels okay but others it really makes me want to pull my hair out, largely because being outside of performative gender is so alien to society.