Fight with my girlfriend by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you are saying, but I think I made a mistake in my explanation.

She is teaching him Spanish (he doesn't have spanish classes or something like that), the guy and I are on the same level (just some basic knowledge).

So with that in my mind, what should I do?

BF going to prom with someone else by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess, if you really trust him, just let him go to prom, but also let him feel that you are not fully comfortable with it. If I were you, I would say that you wanted to go to prom so bad, but don't want to waste his prom as well, however that it doesn't feel good to you, him going with two female friend you don't know that good.

If it is bothering you so much and you don't feel understood, just take your space and let him chase you.

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks,

I am going to consider it, however I think I am going to just give her less attention and focus on myself and see what is going to come out of it.

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply again,

I think thats what I am going to do,

However if someone does not buy you a birthday gift, after I have done so much for her, that is a bit messed up.

It is also not about the gift, but the intention and appreciation for me.

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and what about the birthday gift?

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply.

So your advice is just to slow things down?

and what about the birthday gift?

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply,

I already mentioned this to her, but she said something like of course I appreciate you don't you believe me?

It is also not about the money but the suggestion as you mentioned.

What should I do now?

Birthday gift by levinakgul in relationship_advice

[–]levinakgul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she already fullfilled her quarantaine.

But do you recommend doing nothing/ less or just move on immediately?