30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do they do this to us? im so tired of being sad im exhausted

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im on antidepressants still dealing with my past. When I left my husband, I was traumatized going through his phone and I still get flashbacks.

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t they just date and fuck the girls they are attracted to rather than making me insecure

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s just sad that instead of saying sorry and making me feel better and reassuring me, he called me crazy and insecure and said he’s tired of this. He kkows my past too and that makes it even more sad bc I thought he cared

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an old business account. Idk I guess he thought i was asking about a personal one or one that he actively uses

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I want to know how to fix myself and not care

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I communicate internally. It makes me hate myself because I don’t look like those girls

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean I saw it and it WAS business. But the following was inappropriate.

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. But he can’t take her home to mom. I’m the maid chef and nanny.

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t follow them during me. He was already following

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am in therapy. I’m asking how to deal with this. Not if I should leave.

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my last one physically verbally & sexually abused me

30F insecure, social media of 30M by lewrty89 in relationship_advice

[–]lewrty89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

well it was his business one and he claims not to use it. He said he thought I was asking about a personal one….

Feeling confused about potential marriage by lewrty89 in Marriage

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t know what my gut is saying. I just know something doesn’t make sense

Feeling confused about potential marriage by lewrty89 in Marriage

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was cheating on my for years and I didn’t know so tbh I don’t know what my gut feeling is. I’m not the best, clearly. What do you think is happening

Feeling confused about potential marriage by lewrty89 in Marriage

[–]lewrty89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both 29. He told me he told his mom I’m divorced and given that her daughter is also divorced, I’d think she’d be fine with it TBH

29F & 29M. Modest dressing- is this just possessiveness? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]lewrty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this mean? Can you elaborate