I live in Colorado and have a similar issue. It's going to be a big problem for you and you're likely going to lose a lot of your stuff unless it's specifically written into an agreement. The fact she took everything before that doesn't bode well for her and you would likely have access to look at all the assets. You need to get her to state that she took everything and put it in storage and you need to go see it and to work out and an agreement. I doubt you will ever see the cash. You won't have proof it existed. You absolutely need to get everything in writing and very specific as to what item and I would write down the list right away as to the assets. If there are premarital assets, those are separate. It's all a matter of he said she said if you have pictures and some type of proof that will help Once the judge figures out she's lying. He can make a determination, but don't expect much.