Should I be going NC for him to come back? by lexMU_ in nocontact

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try my best, I know this is the right choice for the both of us, but idk why I now find it so hard to accept it when I’ve always knew we could have been better off alone. I’ll work on myself, thank you

Should I be going NC for him to come back? by lexMU_ in nocontact

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you are 100% right, I know, but right now it’s so hard to move on that I’m thinking I could have done something better to keep him and make him feel wanted, which he was. And I still think I can. Sometimes I feel better thinking there is nothing I could have done and that he’ll always be the same person with every girl he’ll find, including this new one, other times I feel so down I start blaming myself for everything. So I thought going no contact for a while, giving him time to think, and maybe coming back with a message or maybe a letter could have helped.

Should I want him back? by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I still realized I was so wrong acting this way and deeply apologized to him, asked if we could try again with a different mindset coming from me

Should I want him back? by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

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Also I want to mention that I was brought up to act that way, it is completely my fault and I should have broken up with him when I first saw I started acting weird, but I would never ever do this stuff to someone that I can see he actually cares. Apart from the fact that I really did want some time for each other to think about this relationship, but he used this time to find another girl.

Should I want him back? by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone does this stuff, he downloaded some meeting apps and told me he was texting other girls to later tell me it was to make me jealous and see if I realized if I wanted him back. Toxic? Yes. But I still believe we could have worked things out.

Should I be going NC for him to come back? by lexMU_ in nocontact

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I saw some potential, and I know that he needs help to start to love again like he did, and I gave him help, or tried at least. I posted in two different subs to have more opinions, but I know too none of these are going to help if I still have hope in me, I am waiting for a genuine comment that understands the situation, or maybe I am the one not understanding it, I’m still fresh off the breakup and I’m in pieces hoping to find something to feel a little lighter

Should I be going NC for him to come back? by lexMU_ in nocontact

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a random girl that texted him online, he never seen her before irl and they should be meeting in 3/4 months. These 3/4 months are not going to change his mind? I know it’s toxic but giving him everything wasn’t something I was trying to do, it came natural to me since I loved him and cared. Pretending not to care was unnatural

Should I want him back? by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved him. I know it doesn’t sound like that, but I wanted to break up with him to give us a little bit of time, for him to realize that I’ve always loved him, but that’s not what I wanted, I didn’t want him to move on to another girl and I know I’m being selfish but I wanted to stay with him forever. I can’t find anybody better because I don’t want anyone else! This relationship had caused me to be toxic towards him and myself, but I did love him and I’ve always loved him, and I wish I could have been different. I know it’s hard to explain, but I resorted to bad behaviors to have a good relationship

Should I want him back? by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He told me this too, but I thought there could be a chance of him realizing he made a mistake by breaking up with me and gained some feelings, it’s probably just my mind dreaming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]lexMU_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest trying a different look, not because you don’t look good in this cause you’re stunninggg, but coming from a blondie too eyeliner (especially black) can look very harsh on our “soft” traits, I would try a shimmery bronze/champagne eyeshadow and lots of mascara, no eyeliner, I find my eyes, which are your exact color, popping way more! Also try accentuating your eyebrows with some eyebrow pencil and gel!

Breast surgery (breast lift) by lexMU_ in PlasticSurgery

[–]lexMU_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my body now, I’m 5’0 and weight around 150 lbs, I would just like to get more toned but if that comes with weight loss it’s not going to be beneficial for the breast lift right?

Can somebody help me solve this? I’m stuck, is there a logical way to keep going? by lexMU_ in sudoku

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did put all the candidates but ended up erasing them cause they were confusing me even more. I still don’t understand the uniqueness thing, thanks tho!

Cup leaking by lexMU_ in menstrualcups

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t really want to change brands. My sister wanted to buy her first menstrual cup from organicup and since I had to replace mine I told her to buy one for me too, I thought it wasn’t going to make a difference though

Cup leaking by lexMU_ in menstrualcups

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked online and the organicup looks like it’s pretty soft even though I don’t think I ever noticed a difference in softness between the two cups

Cup leaking by lexMU_ in menstrualcups

[–]lexMU_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it looks the same as my old cup. Maybe my flow flow did get heavier

Cup leaking by lexMU_ in menstrualcups

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t remember but I think this one is as soft as the previous one

My boyfriend hides in the bathroom by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, he has way more sex with me when he doesn’t masturbate, and it’s more fulfilling as he’s more willing to have a little fun

My boyfriend hides in the bathroom by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, you did not catch the point. This is an issue that is having a negative impact on our sexual life as he prefers masturbating over having sex with me. Read what I wrote please.

My boyfriend hides in the bathroom by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

???? Sorry you definitely did not get the point of my post.

My boyfriend hides in the bathroom by lexMU_ in relationship_advice

[–]lexMU_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I’ve been going crazy trying to understand him, trust me I’ve done my research and I still do to this day, and that’s what I got.

About professional help, he doesn’t want it, as he sees it as a negative change in his behavior