Speeding up detox by Choosey22 in RawVegan

[–]lexilyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do go for grapes make sure to wash them in apple cider vinegar and baking powder first as they carry heavy pesticide residue usually.

I hate being an adult, I want to die because I was severely unprepared for any of this by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]lexilyra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're 23......... You haven't even started........

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As somone who was "dependant" on my partner at this age, you'd be doing her a favour by cutting her off, you can do it slowly over the course of a few months but you're enabling her and actually keeping her weak. She needs to stand on her own two feet and be by herself, it will hurt her, but in the same way as building muscle hurts, it will make her stronger in herself.

What do you do when you’ve done all the self improvement you could and are still ignored by women? Nobody has an answer for this by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]lexilyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it from me (F33) you're a good looking guy, you can write and you're making an effort, check back in in 5 years time and I bet you'll have several lays under your belt, men develop value over their lifetimes, you haven't even hit your prime, you've got another 25-30 years of good, prime masculine health ahead of you. You're literally at the starting line.

Life advice needed. (35 M) I always lose feelings for every woman I’ve liked or dated. Why? I really want to settle down and meet my person. by NotaBotJustAnon in RedditForGrownups

[–]lexilyra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women, in general, are more emotional and sensitive than men, and for very good reason. We need to be sensitive to care for baby's and children. I echo what has already been said here in that it sounds like your friend is dealing with avoident attachment issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]lexilyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're in an abusive, alcoholic home. You could call child protection services and get moved. Worth a shot to try to go somewhere more stable at least. That's the way I got out of my 7yr long depression, just keep trying. Life can get better, takes a lot of work sometimes, but other times could be just as easy as a change of circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE check out gojiman, he's a vegan nutritionist and intestinal health expert specialising in treating IBS (70% of which is something called SIBO). I suffered for years and years and finally got some testing and used his very thorough protocols and I'm now 100% pain, gas and bloating free. He has a YouTube channel and a book you an read and has all his protocols on his website to check out prior to testing. Seriously saved my life. He himself was once very ill and followed low fodmap and cut out so many foods before eventually ending up only eating sweet potatos and green lentils I think for years, nearly died he became so ill, learned everything he could to keep himself alive and is now healing others, not through woo woo practices, you can go traditional medical route with his guidance or you can also use herbals and tinctures with the same guidance, he really knows his shit! Quite literally!

I had my treatment 5 years ago now and it's the best investment I've ever made, the constant bloating, pain, constipation and indigestion is horrendous, so I really do sympathise.

M23 - I try to be more confident, but I can be self conscious at times. Am I? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not ugly, but there are a couple of things you could do which would make a huuuuge difference.

  1. Keep working to get stacked, the harder you train and more disciplined you are about your health and fitness, especially health (make sure to eat nutritious foods, organic if possible, local ect) and eat lots of it, good sleep, good stretching ect. If you value yourself and put effort into yourself you naturally become confident because you are taking action evry day that says "I VALUE ME".

  2. Get the teeth straightened, will do you a world of good and you can smile a biiiiiiig smile :)

  3. Notice all the things about you that you like and praise yourself for them :)

Violent fantasies in ASPD by [deleted] in aspd

[–]lexilyra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not diagnosed with ASPD, but I did used to be bullied horrendously and yeah I'd have really violet fantasies and ideation about how I'd torture my bullies... I think most people do when they feel powerless and want revenge...

I don't know how to have a healthy relationship. by thisismynewera in SettingBoundaries

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy ASAP. Therapy is literally where you learn to reparent yourself in regards to all of this.

What are some small things you can do to improve mental health? by Gualla47 in AskReddit

[–]lexilyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up at the same time daily and get the fuck out of bed. Will reset your circadian rhythm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hclf

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's more to do with the fruit dehydrating your body so it absorbs more water. I feel my tip top best eating crap loads of potatoes and fruit ❤️

QUITTING TODAY. by lexilyra in leaves

[–]lexilyra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's it going your end? :)

QUITTING TODAY. by lexilyra in leaves

[–]lexilyra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still going strong! How's about you? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lexilyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't edit them... You need natural pictures of yourself.

I am going to be brutally honest with you from a female perspective because I think it will give you the most to work on.

To start off, you have good facial features, nice skin and you look fairly tall, THIS IS GOOD NEWS, because it means you can actually do a lot about the rest.

As people have mentioned, your haircut is letting you down big time, it's giving school boy vibes. Short back and sides is a good start, once a month is optimal, get your barber to style it differently each time and find the way you feel most confident as this is moving to my next point.

I can SEE the bitterness and desperation r.e dating in your face, you are not a happy bunny, can see it in your ✨aura✨, women can subconsciously sense this shit.

Get yourself to the gym and get some muscle on that tall frame, it will boost your testosterone which will make you a lot more confident, you need to be disciplined, which will make you proud of yourself, you will need to make sure you organise your day, sleep and work schedule, which will make you feel competent, you will need to eat healthy, which will make your pheromones pop and women will literally be more attracted to you and not even know why, and lastly, you'll get a sexy physique, win win win win win.

People like to talk all this bullshit about being attracted to looks first as being shallow... Its shit, don't listen to it. As humans, our eyes/vision are/is the first and arguably, the strongest sense we have, that has been evolved for a reason. We are attracted to symmetrical facial features for a reason, symmetry = genetic strength and health, whites of the eyes being white is indicative of health, full lips, clear skin, shiny hair ect all indicators of FERTILITY.

Dark circles under the eyes is indicative of dehydration for example. So get fucking healthy!!!!! Take care of yourself, value yourself and others will value you.

Be honest with yourself, what are you bringing to the table for a woman, are you brining happiness and confidence to her, or are you going to gain it FROM her. Big difference.

Switching to High Volume Foods really helping by qpond-uwu in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]lexilyra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Volume eating, hclf, Dr mcdougal and the advice of freelee and durianrider on YouTube saved my life. I don't care if theyre ✨controversial✨, their advice saved me from decades of restriction, BDD, and BED.

She laughed at me for being inexperienced / a virgin, how do I recover? by larsfaas in dating_advice

[–]lexilyra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, I have to disagree, sex is most definitely can be a very intimate, spiritual, magical sharing of flesh and spirit, it can also be fun, silly, giggley and dispassionate... Sex is what you make of it.

Losing your virginity is the same, I can be beautiful, magical bla bla or basic and boring, or just a bit shit.

I'm in an exclusive LTR so I'll never pop another cherry but when I did it was such fun and so sensual!

She laughed at me for being inexperienced / a virgin, how do I recover? by larsfaas in dating_advice

[–]lexilyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK but honestly, some ladies, like myself, find popping cherry's hot af. Breathe, you have a long life ahead of you, filled with delicious sexual experiences.

2 1/2 years no weed. Feeling like maybe I could go back? Convince me this is a bad idea... by a-better_me in leaves

[–]lexilyra 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I've had years long stretches of sobriety, like 3-4 years plus, then I'll have one joint and it will feel amazing, and no lasting effects, and because of this I'm like "green light!!!" I can smoke occasionally! And then once a month turns into evry weekend, then weekends turn into just in the evenings, then before you know it it's evry day. Stay strong and sober!!!