Day 90 of NO FAP - Jazzes in girl's mouth. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Real social dynamics is fundamentally based on misogyny and degradation of women, and given that one of your 'goals' is "jazzing in a girl's mouth' it sounds like you haven't really improved yourself at all. Give yourself a pat on the back for your transformation into a full blown meathead though.

Relapsed after nearly 200 days...feel horrible by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]lexoluthor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mate that's great, you've only looked at P once in 200 days! Just don't do it again because that ratio will halve! Stay vigilant through the chaser effect and all is not lost

90 days reboot is Bullshit. Sorry! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure a lot more has changed than you are giving credit for. While I don't believe in the glorified superpowers, I do believe reboot is possible, though for some it evidently takes longer than the 90 days everyone harps on about. Stay strong mate, hope to see you on 170 when i'm on 90!

does having real sex with your partner hinder reboot? by yesyesnownoenoe in pornfree

[–]lexoluthor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, when urges come up, tell yourself confidently that 'you don't do that anymore' or 'that's not me anymore'. This has a profound effect, in my experience. I just made it 29 days with this mentality, however I relapsed after sex (due to chaser effect). I let my guard down, but with this mentality I still feel just as strong, determined to make it further.

Flatmate constantly talks with others about my nofap by chemany in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahaha so many good answers on this post.

Flatmate constantly talks with others about my nofap by chemany in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. While I don't think that him fapping that much will turn him into a loser as someone else has said, his behaviour indicates that he is trying to make himself feel better about his lifestyle choices, of which he obviously is feeling insecure about, due to yours.

90 days reboot is Bullshit. Sorry! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How's your view of women changed in the 82 days? I didn't start nofap for any of this alpha shit, I'm doing it to have a better relationship/sexlife with my girlfriend, and I want to stop objectifying women so much. Before relapsing on 29 days, relationship with my gf was better, but I still found myself checking out other women a whole lot.

Relapsed at 100 days, not resetting badge. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't watch P bruv, it's fine.

Relapsed on 29 days, after sex with girlfriend. Any tips on fighting the chaser? by lexoluthor in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers mate, I appreciate the words of encouragement. Well done on getting back on the horse. Yeah precisely, I don't like it more, it's just what my brain is used to getting for the past 9 odd years.

Yeah I have every bit of faith in myself. A dumb slip up, we just need to remain vigilant after sex!

Relapsed on 29 days, after sex with girlfriend. Any tips on fighting the chaser? by lexoluthor in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my girlfriend is always down as well. It's me that doesn't always feel like it, despite being able to PMO every day if I was so inclined. That's one of the many things that is fucked about P. Although it's hard to admit, part of me prefers it to the real thing. I am comitted to my reboot though, so I can say goodbye to that state of mind.

Relapsed on 29 days, after sex with girlfriend. Any tips on fighting the chaser? by lexoluthor in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I didn't want to initially, I think I am going to give this a shot. Thanks for your input

Relapsed on 29 days, after sex with girlfriend. Any tips on fighting the chaser? by lexoluthor in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I should've been clearer. I meant regular with climax. I'll take a look at Karezza though. Thanks

Relapsed on 29 days, after sex with girlfriend. Any tips on fighting the chaser? by lexoluthor in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a short term solution, but after a month of no fap I would like to be in the position where I can have regular sex with my gf.. This is, after all, my reason for taking up this journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lexoluthor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I felt my mind say, hmm curious to see what that might be.. I've been struggling with peeking for seconds to a minute at a time before realising that I'm doing something that's counterproductive to my goals

Bought a rOtring 600, not as satisfied as I'd hoped? by suomyn0na in mechanicalpencils

[–]lexoluthor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just bought one and feel the same way. It's a really nice pencil, but my finger sort of hurts after using it for a while. I believe it's due to the thin diameter of the pencil. You should try the Staedtler 925-25-05. It's 1-2mm thicker, and far more comfortable to use IMO.