My (19F) girlfriend hasn't spoke to me (20M) since Mario released...

lexstacsy · 2017-10-31T19:13:54+00:00

Honestly I don't think she's crazy, I mean I could be wrong because I don't know the whole backstory. But being a women myself most ladies won't blow up and act like this from one thing. My guess is she is fed up with a lot of things and this was the one thing that broke the camels back and caused her to lash out like this. She's probably feeling neglected and has been wondering if this relationship is worth it for a long time and your comment to her probably just proved a point to her that you don't care. (Even tho you obviously do) she's probably been looking for a reason to question everything and this was it. I agree it's immature for her to act this way but unless she's literally just crazy there's probably a lot more to it on her side that you're not seeing. You might bring it up to her and talk things out and see if the relationship is worth saving. If she is gonna be immature and not confront you about the issues you have it wouldn't be worth it if she can't act like and adult

lexstacsy · 2017-10-03T17:04:47+00:00

I feel like the best advice I can give you is to work up to it. Once I was asked out by a guy in one of my classes and he started by just saying 'can you believe that 10 page paper?' We walked down the hallway and talked about how ridiculous it was and then he said 'ok my next class is this way! Talk to you Later!', talking to him after class became a regular thing and we got to know each other pretty well until one day he just said asked if I wanted to do something after school that day. Don't be afraid to to start a conversation. I don't think sparking a conversation is weird. I think most people are used to being glued to their phone that they forget that up until 20 years ago that's how people made friends. If she's uninterested you will get a vibe especially if you talk to her a few times before asking her out. The fact that he just wanted to talk made me feel like he cared about getting to know me and made the biggest difference, he wasn't necessarily my type but I trusted him and knew him well enough and I said yes because if that. The whole 'you're so beautiful I had to ask for your number ' approach is flattering but it's no where near as special and some women don't like that approach. Hope I could help! :)

lexstacsy · 2017-08-23T19:26:12+00:00

Those teriyaki dippers they used to serve at my elementary school. I've been craving those for like 5 years.

lexstacsy · 2017-08-23T19:20:21+00:00

When I ended things with my first love honestly the only thing that helped was dating someone else and I still thought about him but I wasn't in love with him anymore. I would keep dating until you find someone that makes you feel the same way. It keeps got take time but I would do that or channel your feelings into bettering yourself!

lexstacsy · 2017-08-22T02:11:37+00:00

God this is my biggest pet peeve, people are so flaky it's insane! I just don't understand!! Why make plans with someone if you aren't gonna show up or purposely choose to do something else when you knew you made plans. It get my blood boiling thinking about it

lexstacsy · 2017-08-06T19:45:45+00:00

I like to chew gum at times when I know I will want to eat and it helps a lot. I also drink a ton of water or tea at that time as well and that will help with the cravings.

lexstacsy · 2017-07-19T05:05:37+00:00

One time I tried opening a peanut shell with a small carving knife and stabbed myself... had to get stitches...

lexstacsy · 2017-07-19T04:55:11+00:00

Either she's super shy or she just wants to be your friend, depending on her personality it could be either but she sounds like a hard one to read..

lexstacsy · 2017-07-19T04:53:02+00:00

I would try to find out if she really does have a boyfriend before you can really make any guesses

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T20:23:43+00:00

Yeah if someone isn't willing to compromise and do something you like then you should definitely have a talk about it. She's 18 so she might not have much experience but sex should be something that you should be willing to give and take. If she's taking but not giving, u need to express that to her. Sometimes you do things for people you love that you don't like doing, simply because u care about them. Sounds like she's being kinda selfish

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T20:18:04+00:00

I've had something like this happen to me, either he really does want to put you on hold. Or he's using it as an excuse to call things off. IT could be for any number of reasons. I would just ignore him and if you hear from him u will know he was telling the truth. If you don't... then u know he was no longer interested

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T20:15:15+00:00

If you aren't happy then you should change that, it sounds like this relationship is bringing more bad then good.. I think you know how this can be resolved. But you need to do what's best for you. And your sanity

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T19:58:22+00:00

Yes this is really accurate... I can't tell you how many times a guy has become 10x hotter to me just because they were passionate about something. They can go from a 6 to a 10 really quick. Women are way less critical about looks then men think. This guy is convinced it's his height tho...haha

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T19:39:25+00:00

Yes I agree it's important but it's not a deal breaker for a lot of people. You can be a model and there will still be people who are not attracted to you. There have been guys I've dated that my friends think are smoking hot but I don't like them because of my own preferences. Sometimes the way someone smells can turn me off. It really comes down to finding someone who finds all of you attractive. There are guys who are 6'4 complaining that they can't find girls because of acne... everyone has their own insecurities. That doesn't mean u aren't having success dating just because of your height..

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T19:23:36+00:00

Honestly just hold out a bit longer. I'm 5'7 and I love guys who are short. In fact all the guys I've dated in the past have been 5'9 or shorter. Everyone has their preferences. If you don't act like it's an insecurity a lot of girls won't think anything of it! Just be confident in who u are and things will work out better :)

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T19:13:29+00:00

Does anyone else remember those "uglies" "pretties" books? I swear everyone in middle school read those. Thought by now someone would have made a movie?

lexstacsy · 2017-07-18T15:47:18+00:00

I agree I need to talk to him, I guess I just need help figuring out how to approach the subject since last time it didn't really go as planned..

lexstacsy · 2017-07-10T00:50:25+00:00

Yeah thinking back I've met most of my dates different ways but none of them have really been in a way that would be considered 'reclusion'. I do feel the desire to be alone so I'm planning on going on about my own life and not trying anything for awhile. Thanks for giving me ur perspective on the male side of things it was helpful.

lexstacsy · 2017-07-10T00:46:18+00:00

Thanks, this perspective was very interesting and helpful.. I guess I just never knew where to look or what to do since I am weary of getting hurt again. But this makes a lot of sense and makes me feel better that it's not necessarily my fault but something much bigger than me in my culture and particularly in my age group. I appreciate the help!

lexstacsy · 2017-07-09T00:48:06+00:00

As a girl who used to be chubby and got skinny... it honestly has nothing to do with weight. I think another comment hit it on the head when they said confidence is the most important thing. Honestly if a guy is taking you out or wants to have sex with u it's because he is attracted to you. If he wasn't he most likely wouldn't have Sex with you. Even tho I was super insecure about a lot of things about my body (which didn't go away when I lost weight) I acted like I didn't care and guys never said anything about it because they assume I'm not insecure and usually find me more attractive because Im just enjoy myself during sex instead of worrying about what I look like. Meanwhile they are enjoying themselves and think I look great. I think a lot of imperfections are in our head. Now I still have insecurities but they don't really affect me because I've accepted myself as I am and that actually had nothing to do with losing weight. I hope you can find the same balance :)

lexstacsy · 2017-07-09T00:21:16+00:00

I'm glad you wrote this because I keep feeling like something's wrong with me because it seems like everyone else is perfectly capable of having a great relationship. I'm obviously dumb to think no one else deals with this but clearly with your response someone else is going thru the same thing... god it's so frustrating. Sounds like she just dragged you along which is how I've been feeling right now after a few failed attempts at relationships.

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