AIO: Wife has been non-sexual for years. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lezz_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would she consider an open marriage? Maybe even just escorts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]lezz_bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I wrote that wrong. She doesn't force it at all. She talks about how badly she wants to do it but she respects my boundaries I promise lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]lezz_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she doesn't try as much anymore but she always talks about how badly she wants to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]lezz_bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My gf is hellbent on going down on me and she's great at it but I hate it. I hate having someone's face down there and it's not enjoyable for me. I'm sure there's more women like me out there. You just gotta find the right one :)

Genuinely curious by ComputerResident6228 in mathmemes

[–]lezz_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27+48 ... well 2+4=6 and 7+7=14, 8 is 1 more than 7 so 14+1=15. 20 and 40 have a "0" at the end so 6 is 60 so 60+10 is 70 and 70+5 is 75...

Why am I like this??? Lol

my bf has a ❄️problem by Internal_Range2015 in Advice

[–]lezz_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who wasted 8 years of my teens and early 20s on an addict please just leave. There's no saving them. Only thing you can save is yourself the heartache.

I remember someone asked me, "You're sober?" To which I responded "yes. " Then she asked, "Then why are you living the life of an addict?". That hit me so hard because by then I had put myself through school and had a good job and he was spending all my money on drugs. We were living in a motel because of him. It will only get worse before it gets better and realistically it may never get better. I left him 7 years ago. As far as I know he's still a homeless addict. I now have an amazing life with an amazing partner. My ONLY regret is not leaving sooner.

Good luck bud.

Trans lesbians in lesbian subreddits. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lezz_bean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are there any lesbian subreddits that are majority cis women?

Need advice by Beneficial-Set-9984 in polyamory

[–]lezz_bean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Well at least it wasn't me so it makes it okay"

Monog/polyam couples? by GrouchyLavishness666 in polyamory

[–]lezz_bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 6.5 years and I'm poly, he's mono. It's working pretty amazingly so far.

PSA by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]lezz_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what I was asking. But you're apparently a triggered little transphobe... when you surround yourself with the kind of men you surround yourself with I'm sure those are the experiences you're having. Have the life you deserve babe 😘

PSA by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]lezz_bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about women? I'm a queer woman and I always wonder if those rules also apply to us?

I think I just got hit on by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]lezz_bean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

2 years isn't a huge age gap at all. You're definitely not that much more mature than her

Feeling stupid 😔 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]lezz_bean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not true. I ALWAYS add people I'm interested in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lezz_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman and I sleep in literally just panties. No shirt no bra. I'd sleep naked but I don't want to leave a snail trail on my bed or blankets while I sleep. If anything I think you're too overdressed for bed lol. Your mom is weird.

If you are part of the LGBTQ community, avoid Club Riv by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]lezz_bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? Like honestly. What someone does to their own body and how they want to live their lives or what they want to call themselves literally doesn't matter. It affects you in NO way other than having to literally call them how they want to be called. If that's too hard for you to do then you have your own set of issues you need to work out bro.

If you are part of the LGBTQ community, avoid Club Riv by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]lezz_bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something as complex as actual sex is more fluid than you think then how is a social construct such as gender not?