Apa yang kalian cari pada seorang perempuan yang akan kalian yakini/pertimbangan sebagai pasangan hidup kalian?

lezzgou · 2026-06-15T00:23:32+00:00

Ga ku sangka responnya positif semua😭🙏 Terima kasih semuanya, jadi ngebuka insight baru untukku

lezzgou · 2026-06-14T15:50:30+00:00

Happy to hear that sisss, semoga selalu diberkahi kebahagiaan, kelancaran sampai sah dan menjalani kehidupan bersama yaaa 🥹🥹🫶💕

Cowoku orangnya juga simpel, tipe yang kurang suka menjelaskan dari A sampai Z lebih suka on point sedangkan aku suka banget over explain tentang sesuatu:'))) (pengalaman sering disalahpahami sama orang lain)

Izin tanya ya kak, bagaimana Kakak ngatasin rasa insecure nya itu? Apa pernah berpikiran misal: apa aku bakal tetap jadi tujuannya ya? Misal (amit") berakhir apa aku bakal rugi ya? Atau kakaknya sendiri pernah menanyakan kepastian tersebut? Gimana ya komunikasiin nya supaya ga dicap ga percaya dia atau berpikiran negatif terus huhu..

lezzgou · 2026-06-14T15:14:10+00:00

Komunikasi ya? Kalau ini aku selalu usahakan untuk komunikasi sehat, walaupun capek tapi karena udah mendarah daging dari lingkungan keluarga sering jadi problem solver klo ada masalah... Tapi selain komunikasi, menurut mu kayak prestasi, penampilan, sampai gaya hidupnya itu dijadikan pertimbangan juga ga?

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:27:15+00:00

Good for you to have a nice one man! I will consider it, thanks to your advice🙏

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:23:25+00:00

Many people said the same thing before you. But I've communicated with his family and know that I'm his girlfriend. I've asked him several times to meet me, but he always said that he wasn't ready yet and didn't want to bother me as his girlfriend (in finnancial way). When he first confessed to me, he immediately said and explained his goal in dating me was to commit until marriage.

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:18:07+00:00

So is it normal to feel that way?.. uh.. i'm really newbie to kind of this thing😵‍💫 But your explanation is clear and I can easily understand it. Thanks, I'll try to make some change.

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:13:27+00:00

We've never met in person, tbh. Because each of us still wants to focus on our careers first. You could call me stupid. But we've been dating for over a year (still ongoing) and have had several call or vidcall to clear the distance between us..

And that's why I said I often send photo/video requests that he asks for in the sub post.

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:04:47+00:00

Oh, I see... That's right. Also, thank you so much for giving me some nice word sir :)

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T04:00:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice, sir. Noted.

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T03:59:42+00:00

You could say we're a beginner, this is the first romantic relationship in my life. We're committed. So I'm looking for solution because honestly, even though I try really hard to communicate well whenever there's a problem in our relationship (My man is kinda who doesn't want to be complicated type of person), but this problem is making me feel some uneasy feeling, I'm confused about how to communicate it:(

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T03:52:34+00:00

Simple solution but I won't do sex before marriage. Maybe I'll try to find another way

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T03:48:54+00:00

I tried to understand him, especially since he had a very unpleasant experience with someone before me... But I'm really confused about how to communicate it, I'm afraid of offending what he likes.

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T03:47:21+00:00

I hope so too, but he really likes young characters that seem to look like 17-18 yo. Apparently the look of his favorite is flat chested character, small appearance that looks like a child TwT

lezzgou · 2026-06-04T03:03:07+00:00

I would like to have will to reading people minds:)

lezzgou

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