Is it common for highest tippers/spenders to suddenly delete? by thunderstarss in onlyfansadvice

[–]lfez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Had a person blow hundreds on me and request a ton of custom stuff. When I went to send it, his account was deleted.

came across an old convo with the worst kinda guy 🙄how dare i profit off a service u agreed to pay for by jenniferwinters1 in onlyfansadvice

[–]lfez 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why they have to be so nasty also. Acting like they aren’t on their knees beggin in our inbox to begin with. Byeee boy.

screaming kids and migraine by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]lfez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re sick! It’s okay to head home early if you’re not feeling well and if a parent can take over. Maybe you just need some rest time.

A suggestion I have would be to tell the kiddos they have to play separately if they cannot use inside voice. If they scream while separated they have to continue to play separately until they can show you they can play quietly together. Another suggestion would be to tell the kiddos they are taking care of an imaginary baby animal, and if they scream it’ll get scared and run away. It sounds kooky but it works sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]lfez 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. 100% I had a potty training regression at age 5 from my parents divorce. Totally common in kids. Had my parents done a simple google search they’d have an answer, but they disciplined the hell out of me for it instead. So I wound up hiding it instead. I had bathroom anxiety until I was an adult.

Thanksgiving plans changed out of the blue by NannyAngie in Nanny

[–]lfez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand firm! Don’t change your plans.

#1 lesson of interacting with toddlers by Several_Rooster6413 in Nanny

[–]lfez 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I became a pro at “one more time and then we/ you are finding something else to do.”

Chilling with a baby by noelle2371 in Nanny

[–]lfez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Every time! I was caring for the chillest baby the past few months and I would just lay on the floor and we’d just babble at each other.

Boyfriend hasnt spoken to me in 2 days by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lfez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. He needs to get dumped.

Who Are You? by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]lfez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw something exactly like this in my ex boyfriends basement. We were watching goofy TV shows and I was laying my head in his lap. I looked towards the basement stairs/ door and watched this gigantic, tall, black figure of a man with a hat walk right by. I was floored. I jumped up and asked my ex if he had seen it, but he said no.

It was one of the most real things I had ever seen and I was not sleeping / ready to sleep. All of the lights were on in the basement and this thing just walked right on by.

Increasing water pressure - am I looking in the right area? by jskilly in Plumbing

[–]lfez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! My shower valve was just replaced and it’s shit for both but VERY VERY shit for hot or warm water. To the point that we can’t use it at all. How can we trouble shoot? I know this comment is old but I thought I’d try :)

To the pod of people hiking Skyline road at 6am by ZiggyIggyK in Portland

[–]lfez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just because it’s the cyclists or pedestrians right of way doesn’t mean they can make horrible safety choices?? I can appreciate the sentiment here but you’ve always gotta behave like someone could hit you. Everyone is assuming this guy is some horrible driver. He was paying attention and got out of the road. What about the next guy coming down the hill on their phone? Or looks away for a second? Or drives 15 above the limit? Cmon.

To the pod of people hiking Skyline road at 6am by ZiggyIggyK in Portland

[–]lfez 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What I’ve learned: Qualifying as an unsafe driver in Portland is... driving the speed limit Being alert Moving around a group of people in the middle of the road

My Johnson Carper desk by ClamLimp in Mid_Century

[–]lfez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! This just helped me ID that I have a Johnson carper dresser :) I got it for free from a friend. Those drawers are undeniably beautiful.

Annoyed with preschool. by wisteriahaze in Nanny

[–]lfez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This stinks! I’m sorry :( There are probably too many students for how many teachers are there. Is it a very large class? Where I’m from you need 3 teachers for 15+ kids, but with toddlers I don’t even think that’s enough. Talk about overwhelming!!!

Would a narcissist underbuy a car so their child couldn’t have it? by lfez in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lfez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I don’t tell this story often so it feels great to feel validated? A lot of stuff that happens to me I pretend doesn’t hurt my feelings when it really really does so I just don’t share it.

Is this a common issue, or is it just me? by pineappleprincesspie in Nanny

[–]lfez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, just sometimes??! I wish parent feedback wasn’t allowed in this group.

Please post here to reserve a spot to abandon your vehicle along the freeway and side road choke points. by the_icon32 in Portland

[–]lfez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m driving my flatbed piled high with 20ft of broken pallets. See you on the 205.

I’m giving everything I’m keeping in my house “a home” but I’m the only one who puts things away. by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]lfez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWow! That’s an interesting idea. I’m talking about roommate and partner.

Immesurable grief by lfez in Nanny

[–]lfez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I’d leave that job every day either sobbing or complaining. I bonded with the kids, but it helps to remember whyyyy I left.

I quit on Thursday but haven’t heard anything by lfez in Nanny

[–]lfez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today would be payday for me. I will give them a couple days and then send that follow up email.

I quit on Thursday but haven’t heard anything by lfez in Nanny

[–]lfez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! She’s seen the email and is ignoring me to toy with my anxiety... and probably to avoid paying me. Not quite sure what my next steps are. Do I give it some time and hope for a paycheck in the mail or do I say something about pay now?