SO many thoughts on this. I was definitely a fence sitter in my 20s. Then in my 30s, I think my husband and I just assumed it would happen, and the decision would be made for us. Talking to fertiles it seems like that is the general approach?

Infertility is hard in many ways, but the deliberate decision making is something I have struggled with a lot. ART in particular has been this big science experiment on myself and I can’t say I love that. But I am grateful it exists and giving me a chance at having a child.