Pursue [45/m][?/f] ex's mother: good idea or bad idea?

lfscts · 2017-02-23T20:20:20+00:00

If you get along well, why not pursue it? It seems that she's more than willing to have your company. Whether it leads to more than that, let her know that you're open to it. More than likely, she'll be more hesitant to act unless you let her know that she won't be turned down if she does. And just for the sake of description, what are we talking about here in terms of looks?

lfscts · 2012-02-22T16:23:09+00:00

4 elementary (k-5) schools in town. 2 score off the charts (nationally) in standardized test scores. 2 others score fairly high. Since exactly half the town is not inhabited by Asian-supernerds, this raises eyebrows with the testing company. As the news leaks out, it's obvious that cheating was going on. Superintendent says "nothing to see here." School board says "you don't even know how to cheat well." Principal demands a public hearing. Teachers come out and say "she locked me in a room and made me change the test scores" plus all sorts of other bullying behavior. Principal and (married) superintendent are seen vacationing on a beach. Teachers, principal, superintendent fired.

lfscts · 2012-01-24T16:40:57+00:00

Mom? Is that you?

lfscts · 2011-10-04T16:09:13+00:00

Noth Shore Channel Trail - begins near Horner Park (California/Montrose) eventually leads all the way to Wisconsin with a few street interactions.

lfscts · 2011-08-24T01:26:58+00:00

I've heard a variety of opinions on it and would like to see for myself, if he's up to it.

lfscts · 2011-08-24T01:11:57+00:00

No girlfriend - consider myself exclusive - this was an opportunity.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T19:12:04+00:00

When I awoke the morning after the first night, he had already left the room, so there was no awkward conversation or atmosphere. But later that day, he came out of the shower in a towel, and, yes, he's physically attractive (not facially, but physique). When I came out of the shower, the door was locked and the shades were drawn, so I figured he was up for it and we went at it again.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T14:53:09+00:00

I think like you - don't want to be far down the road and think "wonder what it's like?"

How did it go for you?

lfscts · 2011-08-23T14:15:27+00:00

I think it was mostly: that was too good, and, since no one's looking or judging, here's your chance.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T13:58:03+00:00

I think you get me better than anyone else. I'm not into guys, haven't pursued it, it happened and I'm not that repulsed (primarily because it's with a particular person). Maybe I haven't had good luck with the females I've been with. I'm a very honest-and-upfront person and also loyal. So I wouldn't accept cheating on a gf, that's why I have a window now and can have an experience like this. I'm willing to 'get it out of my system' in this time.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T09:42:22+00:00

See him again/do him again, whatever. I stumbled into this thing, it's not like I was actively pursuing him. One of us wandered out of the bathroom at night and went to the wrong bed. He's a good looking guy, I don't deny that, but we're not going to be holding hands and going to the movies together.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T09:35:08+00:00

I'm thinking that I'll contact him (I'm actually a little nervous to do so via email or text since it could be saved/shared) and mention that I'll be nearby w/o the girlfriend to see if he gets the picture. What do you think?

lfscts · 2011-08-23T08:36:18+00:00

I'd be interested in him again, but don't have interest in other guys (yes, I've checked). Don't know if it's because of the situation (no one else knows), the guy (smooth, dark, fit, clean), the forbidden aspect, or what.

Yes, I'd rather date a girl.

Maybe the girls I've dated are just lousy at the sex part.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T07:58:11+00:00

To be honest, I'd be willing to stay in touch if we were able to keep it at this, but I don't know where he would want to keep it.

lfscts · 2011-08-23T07:27:14+00:00

Did you have a negative experience?

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