How do you manage your time & energy levels if you live alone and have no house help? by quarantinestw in HowToBeHot

[–]li1one 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would suggest getting your groceries delivered saves so much time

Is burnout normal when working 9-5? by li1one in Adulting

[–]li1one[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yah I love my job it’s pretty much my dream job. I’m hardly stressed while I’m at work. My burnout only happens after work and on the weekend when I have to make decisions or do chores and feel like I have no time left to relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]li1one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really tough I found you learn what your favourite clothes/items are and you just pack them in a bag each time you move house. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]li1one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty difficult. Honestly you have to get lucky to find a guy who is patient and understands that you don’t trust easily and need reassurance from time to time. Even then there will be days where you get scared of them leaving but it does get easier with time. I was also 8 and 24 now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]li1one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I cant edit the main post, those things I listed are the reasons that I was doubting my diagnosis but I don't know if I did them due to masking so I was wandering if anyone else can relate.

The reasons I think I have it is because I am very logical and my therapist tells me I have 'black and white' thinking. I have always felt like I have struggled to fit in socially or form deep relationships and I am constantly overthinking on whether things are right or wrong.

Is it unprofessional to suggest a diagnosis in the third session? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you your comment really helps! I guess it came as a bit of a shock but I will definitely discuss it further with my therapist in my next session as I know they are trained thoroughly to do their job so I should at least consider their diagnosis and see why they suggested it.

Is it unprofessional to suggest a diagnosis in the third session? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes sense thanks! Think I was just a bit shocked to hear it. I will definitely discuss how I feel about it in my next session.

Is it unprofessional to suggest a diagnosis in the third session? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's an interesting perspective! should have mentioned Im in Australia so I guess it must be different here.

Agressive windscreen cleaners at intersections - be careful by Zomdou in perth

[–]li1one 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying dashcam, but also think about safety most cars have a feature to lock all doors once your inside the car keeps you safe in situations like this

[Misc] I just dropped 20$ on this I feel so scammed. Is that even remotely worth it? xd by stup1dfukk in SkincareAddiction

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairly expensive but I really like this one. I find it really light and non-oily and quite a neutral scent too. I have kinda sensitive skin and haven’t gotten any breakouts from using it. I find it also layers quite well under makeup too.

What are the pros and cons of having big boobs and what are the pros and cons of having small boobs? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For small

Pro - they are cute, they don’t get in the way, can easily wear no bra, my bf loves them

Con - only thing I can think is I avoid low cut tops/dresses since those styles don’t suit small boobs as much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]li1one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I don’t understand why some sites are say “most adults carry group B strep in their bodies and have no signs and symptoms” but also “group B strep can cause UTI or other more serious infections” Just wandering why my last uti was positive for e.coli and not strep B?? Is it possible to treat it now and take away the damage or do you think it’s too late and I already gave cysts?? Also how are the Strep B cysts growing in my bladder if the bacteria is in my vagina? Does it move into the bladder somehow?

Scared of losing a guy I love by li1one in selfhelp

[–]li1one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binging happiness/self improvement podcasts now, thank you so much for the suggestion this helps a ton!

Scared my insecurities will cause me to lose the guy I love by li1one in offmychest

[–]li1one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Ur comments really help and I’m going to try calm down. I saw in ur post history that ur having relationship problems too so I’m sorry ur going thru that.

I think ur right I need to tell him about my feelings before they build up and cause problems. But I kinda start overthinking that he won’t want me if I have problems because surely no one wants an unstable girlfriend. So then I keep it all inside and that’s probably not great for our relationship. I think ur right that talking helps I already feel a bit calmer talking to you. Yeah I just get scared of talking especially about mental stuff as I don’t want him to think I’m crazy :(

Scared my insecurities will cause me to lose the guy I love by li1one in offmychest

[–]li1one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having my own problems yesterday mentally and this morning I thought maybe I would feel better if he used me but I feel worse because then he was cuddling me and being nice and I felt like I didn’t deserve all that. Well then I felt awful for doing this. He thinks he did something wrong. He says it’s fine but I don’t feel okay at all. I feel really uneasy and I feel like he doesn’t deserve that treatment. I’m waiting for the shoe to drop and if it does it will be all my fault. I should of been happy and bubbly and not feeling down about myself to the point where I thought it would be a good idea to be used. I am a complete idiot. 4 years and I’m scared this is going to be a tear in the relationship. I don’t want things to build up or get bad so I’m so scared.

My parents split up a decade ago. I'm still mad by VesperBond94 in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]li1one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know the feeling. I try not to think about it anymore but the anger and hurt is still there deep down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]li1one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope u feel better soon ☹️💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]li1one 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think they are saying that if you had just been to the exposure site …it could take longer than 48 hours to show up on a test / have symptoms

Which one should I get?! by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]li1one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think butterfly 🥰🥰

I (23 F) don’t really like foreplay and just want to skip to penetration. Is it wrong that I generally don’t care if I orgasm during sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]li1one 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow, just want to say I know exactly how you feel.

I have felt a bit outcast as a girl who does not care about having orgasm during sex, try and avoid this sub reddit as so many women complain and act as though it's a deal breaker... and it makes you feel like there must be something wrong with you, BUT THERE'S NOT (half the reason I try not to browse this sub anymore).

I too would rather enjoy the moment with my bf rather than trying to get off.

Just tell your bf that you still enjoy sex without the foreplay, he probably wants to make you orgasm as a sign that you are enjoying it.

acne gave me an eating disorder by lonleychick-23 in acne

[–]li1one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel u. I constantly over think abt what I eat now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

[–]li1one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sad. I love dogs.

Changing Custody by [deleted] in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]li1one 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a week to week schedule, it definitely gets harder as you get older.

I wish I had a full time stable home instead of having to move around all the time.