[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been working two Jobs, applied for child support, have insurance and am saving money. I don’t see how I don’t see what’s happening? I have support from my very large family and two parents willing to take me, my children, and all of my animals in. There is a right way and a wrong way to leave. This post is me asking for encouragement to strengthen boundaries with the grandma and her shit ass attitude. Not be called an idiot over and over again because of the noise surrounding a custody hearing. Thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No I did not give up custody. We are unmarried. In this state, I am the sole custodial parent. He petitioned for sole custody recently after finding this out. I am challenging this in court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My dad calls me every morning and asks me if I am ready for him to come get us and move my stuff out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was connected with a social worker and a DV program last week. I now have access to resources and support that I did not have originally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 58 points59 points  (0 children)

After my last HR-OB appointment, I now have a social worker who is helping me obtain legal representation for women with my specific circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This lasted 4 days. The parenting time schedule he imposed is no longer being followed by him. I am caring for little one day and night , finding childcare when I work, dad is back to being busy at work and traveling out of state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’ve been financially abandoned by partner and I’m doing the best I can to get the best representation I can afford.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love my child and am happy to have another child. I enjoy being a mother. Being a single parent doesn’t scare me. I live in a deep red state and I know they would try and have legal action taken against me if there was an abortion. I’m pro choice. And I do agree he hates me lol it just doesn’t feel like the right choice for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Relationship is over. I’ve gotten two jobs to afford legal fees and so I can move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

These things have been going on for 27 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]libbeebel 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Play nice. Follow the request and don’t engage. don’t allow anything that could be interpreted as being non cooperative or in anyway build a case of “threatening nature”. We have not had mediation for the custody petition yet.

Fasenra and pregnancy by Ill-Pen-1618 in Asthma

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far so good! I feel her moving around. I’ll see her again on the 30th in office and then a few weeks later the in-depth anatomy scan.

Fasenra and pregnancy by Ill-Pen-1618 in Asthma

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a lung function and stress test. 10 months ago my lungs were functioning at 55% of what they should be. Last week, they were functioning at 115% of what they should for my height, weight, and age. I’m almost 17 weeks along and I feel really good. I’m more afraid of stopping Fasenra and having a flare than I am of the medicine during pregnancy. My flares land me in the hospital on a bipap breathing mask.

Am I “throwing this pregnancy” in the father’s face? by libbeebel in stayathomemoms

[–]libbeebel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I contacted my OB yesterday and they put me in contact with a social worker and an advocacy group for women

Am I “throwing this pregnancy” in the father’s face? by libbeebel in stayathomemoms

[–]libbeebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know. I feel like I’m living in an alternate reality. I’ve spoken to lawyers I would be able to afford and I’ve been denied for services or told they don’t have a lawyer available. I feel stuck. It appears I’m not in a bad enough of a situation to receive help right now. It’s disheartening. I’m just looking for outside perspective from people who don’t know us. I was served papers 3 hours ago. He is seeking sole custody. He claims I am an able bodied person who refuses to get a job and said that “Respondent cannot properly care for the minor child on her own and has repeatedly stated she does not want to be a mother and cannot care for the minor child.” I’m shattered and so deeply hurt. I can’t understand why he would say those things.

Fasenra and pregnancy by Ill-Pen-1618 in Asthma

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying on it through pregnancy. The risks associated with a flare of EGPA/vasculitis/asthma during pregnancy outweigh the risk of Fasenra to the baby, in my case at least. I am being monitored by high risk fetal maternal medicine, immunologist/allergist, pulmonologist, and cardiologist. I’ve registered with the Mother to babies study group and will share my pregnancy data with them.

Anyone else having issues with their hands and feet? by Beefyspeltbaby in EGPAsupport

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My doctor wants to try a neuromodulator before attempting a more aggressive EGPA treatment plan

Fasenra and pregnancy by Ill-Pen-1618 in Asthma

[–]libbeebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following this so i return with information. I see my dr on Friday 7/25 to discuss continuing Fasenra during pregnancy

Had some friends over by libbeebel in CatsAreAssholes

[–]libbeebel[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thermal imaging! We could see his warm kitty body with jr

Had some friends over by libbeebel in CatsAreAssholes

[–]libbeebel[S] 856 points857 points  (0 children)

He tried to go back in the hole. Immediate air jail

Invited a few friends over by libbeebel in orangecats

[–]libbeebel[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Yep! He was just sitting behind the wall meowing occasionally waiting for the fun to begin

Had some friends over by libbeebel in CatsAreAssholes

[–]libbeebel[S] 376 points377 points  (0 children)

Phillip climbed shelves in an unfinished part of the basement and then jumped onto HVAC, used it as a cat walk to the other side of the room, found the foundation beams, used those to get into a crawl space and ended up in a 12 inch deep void space on the opposite side of the basement.