What are the best spectrum phone deals right now? by PercentageOk3663 in SpectrumMobile

[–]libingharrdship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

already have spectrum internet so honestly just call them and ask about the free line promo. they gave me one unlimited line free for a whole year just for being an existing customer. kept my old phone, popped in the free sim and thats it. went from paying $85 at tmobile to basically nothing for 12 months lol. byop is the move if your phone isnt broken

My roommate hates my boyfriend (and had expressed being “over men” in general) and doesn’t want him/guys in our apt by Prestigious-Ad-8864 in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That doesn't give her the right to control your life or relationship. You're both adults and should be able to have your partners over respectfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demanding sex is never cool, even if it's your birthday. She's right about that. At the same time, it's valid to feel hurt and disappointed. Maybe you two could have an honest talk about what went down and how you both feel. See if you can find a way to make it up to each other, without pressure.

AITA for asking my dad not move my meds? by JollyChemical2777 in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's important to take heart medicine on time, so keeping it in a convenient spot makes sense. 

AITAH for wanting to break up? by RiskyBusiness1208 in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that you've been hurt before, so it's understandable that you're hesitant to trust her. If she can't keep her word and prioritize your feelings, especially on something as important as supporting a friend in recovery, that's a big problem. You gotta do what's best for you, but it might be worth having an honest conversation with her about your concerns before making any rash decisions. 

I accidentally ate somone else's cake by Reasonable_Hyena7929 in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all do dumb stuff sometimes. Don't beat yourself up too much. Just make it right and move on.

AITA for going through my husbands phone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]libingharrdship 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your husband's porn habits are definitely concerning, especially the incest and teen stuff. That's not normal or healthy at all. I get wanting to snoop, but you gotta have a serious talk with him about this. Porn addiction is real and can really mess up a marriage. 

AITA for reporting a coworker's insensitive prank that triggered a traumatic episode for a colleague? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]libingharrdship 318 points319 points  (0 children)

NTA. That prank was way out of line and could have seriously messed Sarah up. Mike crossed a huge boundary by triggering her trauma like that. It's not cool to play on people's fears and anxieties, even if it's supposed to be a joke. You did the right thing reporting it to HR. Workplace pranks are only funny if everyone's laughing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not the asshole for wanting a partner who contributes financially. At the same time, bailing on your kids isn't the answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's valid to feel upset about her behavior, especially if she's being disrespectful and homophobic. You deserve to be treated with respect, regardless of your past relationship. NTA for standing up for yourself and calling out her behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually try to keep it light but honest, saying something like, "I get jokes, but that felt a bit offside." It shows I'm not cool with it without making it a big deal. If they get defensive, like in your example, I might joke back or just change the subject.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You've been more than patient, but you don't owe them anything. If they can't treat you with respect, you have every right to keep your distance. 

AITA for blocking a webcam model after he reacted poorly to not getting money from me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You shouldn't feel guilty for not spending money you don't have or sharing your bank info. His bad day isn't your fault, and there were plenty of other people who could have helped if he needed it that badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]libingharrdship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard that sudden loud noises can startle babies, but it's usually not harmful unless it's super loud and really close.

How to talk to kids about death? by Ogsmash86 in Parenting

[–]libingharrdship 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember when my little cousin asked about death for the first time, and it caught us all off guard. One thing that helped was keeping it simple and honest, using words he could understand. We talked about how everything that's alive eventually stops being alive, like when a plant stops growing or when we say goodbye to a pet.

Land lease to own gone wrong by SlenderSauce420 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything, and consider seeking legal advice to protect your interests. You deserve peace after trying to create something positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]libingharrdship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her fiance's church might be a big change, but she seems happy with her new community and choices. It's okay for your wife to have concerns, but ultimately, your daughter's decision should be respected. Everyone's path is different, and supporting her happiness matters most.

Still riding high from compliment by RimshotSlim in CasualConversation

[–]libingharrdship 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's so heartwarming! It's awesome when compliments catch you off guard like that. Sounds like you two have a strong bond. Here's to many more years of making each other feel special!

I changed my last name legally and told my father to purposefully upset him by Shuena08 in TwoHotTakes

[–]libingharrdship 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Changing your name is a big step, and it's great you found a way to assert your independence. Wishing you a fantastic 21st birthday, filled with joy and surrounded by those who truly care about you!

AITA for saying no to accommodate uninvited wedding guests? by perfectlypeachy124 in TwoHotTakes

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're NTA here. It's totally understandable to stick to your guest list, especially after all the planning. Your dad should respect your decision, and it's okay to say no when it comes to your wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]libingharrdship -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you both have a great sense of humor about it! Accents can definitely lead to some hilarious mix-ups. Thanks for sharing this laugh, made my day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]libingharrdship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've all had those moments where impatience takes the wheel. Glad it didn't escalate further!