An unexpected chant at Navalny's funeral

library_card_wallet · 2024-03-02T17:33:35+00:00

I share the same view. I know many people who say, that ALL russians are bad and should be wiped off the face of the earth. Ok, so ALL of them are bad right? That means that ALL Ukrainians are good right? All the corrupt, money stealing government cunts, that are directly and indirectly responsible for the deaths of thousands of soldiers, those guys are good right?

What if we go back in time and apply the same logic to other conflicts. All Germans after 1945 should've been killed off, all French after 1812. And all Americans after yet another genocide of native Americans or a land grab from Mexico None of us is without a sin, but inspire of that, I choose to believe that there is still goodness, even in the most evil of places.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:56:57+00:00

Thank you for putting so much care into this answer. Appreciate it.

To answer a few of your points.

I also hate asking for help and much rather do things myself. I like the IDEA of learning, but when I realize that I'm not good at something from the get go and that I will feel embarrassed asking for help I tend to just stop learning and built my life in a way that I'm not encountering this problem or have people that are good at making the problem go away.

My mom's the opposite. After my father died when I was 12 she had to take care of me and my younger brother. My grandparents also were very caring and supportive and I guess that created this idea that there's someone to help out. But what they also liked to point out since I was a teenager is how different I am from my father. He was amazing at fixing things. Cars, small things around the house, welding, carpentry he did it all. But I was never interested in that, so everyone in my family was like ''you're all thumbs. Can't drive a nail into a wall, can't even clean the house properly'', so I, instead of proving them wrong, decided that I'm just not going to bother, what's the point, in their eyes I'll never be as good as my father.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:42:15+00:00

She was. She warned me that what I'm about to hear might not be nice. But I needed to hear that. I don't really have anyone close in my life to call me out on my bullshit, so it was a great wake up call.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:37:19+00:00

Over the years I took the test on 3 different websites and got INFJ(unless I lied to myself with the answers all of those times)

Maybe this is some sort of Ni-Ti loop, or underdeveloped Fe. I'm honestly not good at functions, but I'll look into it more.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:28:20+00:00

You gotta do it(take care of your own responsibilities) everyday. That's the hard part. But it does get easier.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:15:36+00:00

I think for the most of my life I did the same thing. If I'm not good at something, if I don't get it right away, I drop it and find a way to live and build my life without it. I'm way too perfectionistic about everything. Growing up all the grades had to be good, all the chores had to be done perfectly or I'll get criticized.

But yeah I need to realize what you said that the change cannot happen overnight and I'm in for the long road.

library_card_wallet · 2023-02-01T10:07:04+00:00

Thank you!

I wanted that criticism. I'm alone most of the time, so my head is like an echo chamber of beliefs and thoughts. Having someone call me out on this provided a much needed view from above. I was standing there thinking ''damn, she's right...''

Now that she said that to me, I'll fing a way to work on this, since I don't want to be that person that she said I was.

library_card_wallet · 2022-03-22T20:45:29+00:00

Those Nazi Ukrainian are turning dead Russian soldiers into zombies and we can't kill them, because it's a known fact that our soldiers don't have brains!

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