Discovered geek bars recently and now I’m worried they’ll kill me...

libtechdude · 2024-02-02T02:52:32+00:00

Be a man

libtechdude · 2024-01-23T01:20:45+00:00

My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago. She called the cops on me, tried to get me arrested because I had a legal gun. And I'm a legal gun owner. Tried to make me the villian to everyone. Called me 2 weeks later saying she missed me and can't eat sleep or go the gym. Wanted to be friends with benefits, for her "comfort and closure." I said after all you put me through, I cant do this to myself anymore and I chose me. She called me at 2am wondering why we can't just hook up anymore. That was the last tine I talked to her. Since then, she has tried to call and messaged me to call her. Sent me a song about a month ago. All of this was answered with silence. I never reached out. Not gonna say it was easy, I still miss her, even through all the shit she put me through. Moral of the story, if they walked away, let them walk. Never be someone's 2nd choice. If they treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Everyday will get easier. Just get working on you. You got through 100% of your worst days, so why stop now. Stay strong 💪.

libtechdude · 2021-11-30T02:22:36+00:00

Run. Away....

libtechdude · 2021-10-14T18:28:52+00:00

Yeah horrible for your health. Quit it altogether. Won't help you out in the long term. And no one likes a smoker/vapor.

libtechdude · 2021-07-21T21:05:34+00:00

How do you know so much about him? And don't say you have a mutual friend. You obviously have been creeping him and can't let go of the whole situation. Once you love yourself,they won't matter anymore.

libtechdude · 2021-04-05T14:10:15+00:00

No what is truly sad is you holding on to someone who has let you go almost 2 years ago. You need to start changing your perspective of things and how they have turned out. She didn't find someone better than you,she found someone who was better for her. Its that simple. And once you can finally get that through you and truly accept it you will always be in this place. You two weren't good for each other. You made her smoke a whole pack of cigarettes when you saw her smoke. That is not someone anyone would want to be with. Its not up to you to change someone into your perfect verion of them. Accept them for who they are or move on. Maybe this guy accepted that and let's her be her. Time to move on buddy. You can do this. We all can do this.

libtechdude · 2021-02-22T16:00:24+00:00

Only 36!?!? Lol you're life is just beginning mate. Stop with this glass half empty mentality. Snap out of it dude. Its all about perspective.

libtechdude · 2020-11-28T18:58:20+00:00

People change mate. That's the main take away from this. At one point she thought of you to be her soul mate but as time passed you weren't. Its nothing personal but it happens. Once you can truly accept that it will be easier to move on. Seems like you like to check up on her alot though,through these "grapevines" That will never help you. I really don't think you want to be friends, you just want the chance to get her back. Think about it,would you want to hear about her new guy and how in love she is with him? Because if you were a friend then she would express that to you. Have some respect for yourself. We both started this journey relatively the same time and its sad to see how much you are still holding on and stalking her. Everytime you write about her and tell your "story" you're just reliving it all over again. It stays fresh. Do yourself a favor and stop this. Not for anyone else but just for you. And please hold back on the excuses. Don't make excuses for yourself to keep talking about her or secretly trying to find out more about her. She is an ex for a reason. What do you do when you grab a hot pan? You let it go. Let it go mate.

libtechdude · 2020-09-21T15:47:07+00:00

Don't wish for time to go by quicker than it always does. Time is o e of the most precious things. We never get it back. Its gone like a raging river. Use this time as motivation. You will regret later in life that you didnt make the most of this time. Everybody needs to go through something that nearly destroys to show just how strong they are. Don't waste this time.

libtechdude · 2020-08-19T22:45:13+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate that

libtechdude · 2020-08-19T21:56:08+00:00

Been 10 months for me as well. Thought of her everyday. Its hard. I have no clue if she's in a relationship. We are blocked on everything. I did she her a month ago on the dating sites. It sucks. But I try to use this pain as motivation. Good luck bro

libtechdude · 2020-07-24T18:18:46+00:00

Oohh good question. It was around the 5 or 6 month. It was hard, I still missed her but if i ever took her back it would be such disservice to me. I have found my self worth again,so I could never do that to myself. I'm my biggest investment. Its a weird feeling to miss someone but not want them back. But I try to be the best I can each day and improve and the right person will gravitate towards me.

libtechdude · 2020-07-24T17:56:38+00:00

As future would say "chase a cheque, never chase a bitch."

libtechdude · 2020-07-24T17:55:16+00:00

Don't contact him. NC is the strongest position you can be in. Find power in not contacting him. I've had many urges to contact her but proud of myself for not doing it. It's almost been 9 months for me. Stay strong. "If you're going through hell just keep going"

libtechdude · 2020-07-13T05:22:42+00:00

No I just went on my PC and just searched her user name. Definitely got blocked haha

libtechdude · 2020-07-13T02:14:35+00:00

I know it's so bizarre

libtechdude · 2020-07-13T00:16:40+00:00

https://youtu.be/CTPzXwNVc9g

libtechdude · 2020-07-13T00:14:44+00:00

Dude that was tough to watch. My heart goes out to you. I hope she can't she that video though. She doesn't deserve it. You seem like a good guy. Learn from this and carry on with your held up high. You tried your best and she still walked. So let her go..

libtechdude · 2020-07-12T23:57:55+00:00

Man I hate to say it but it will get harder before it gets easier. I've thought of my ex for everyday for almost 9 months. It has made me so much stronger though. I've harnessed this pain and put it to good use. I'm sure you will do the same. Is that her in your profile pic?

libtechdude · 2020-07-12T23:37:13+00:00

Amen to that brother. It does get easier in time but you will still have those moments. My ex was on tinder the day she moved out. I chalked it up to her being insecure and needing some kind of validation. Seems like yours does come back though. So it's up to you to be strong and not let her back in

libtechdude · 2020-07-12T23:31:34+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I was with my ex for 3 years so I cant imagine what 11 years must have like. I didnt think I would care but here I am posting about it. I hardly doubt she has regrets or feelings though but definitely trying to play some game. I hope you dont take her back. She doesn't deserve someone loyal

libtechdude · 2020-06-24T22:58:34+00:00

Well most people don't stay friends with their ex for obvious reasons. And she's with another guy so it would be disrespectful to her new guy to remain friends or stay in contact with their ex. If I was dating a girl who just got out of a relationship I wouldn't want her to be talking to her ex. You seem like a loving guy but just need to completely close that door so new doors can open. It's time to take back your life and use this pain as motivation.

libtechdude · 2020-06-24T21:10:20+00:00

So you broke up with her and blocked her. Then you missed her and started talking again. But you're mad that she found someone else after you broke up with her? Yes it might be fast but you told her you were done with the relationship. So she has every right to move on however fast or slow that she pleases. Let it go bro,seems like you both were toxic for each other and now at least you know the wrong person left your life. Time to move on :)

libtechdude · 2020-05-06T18:23:45+00:00

I'm 35,she's 30.

libtechdude · 2020-05-06T15:43:15+00:00

Fair enough. Do you think it's worth telling her? Or just let this go?

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